guys get very judgmental about when a girl tells him how many guys she slept with especially when her number is higher then his and guess what his get out clause is 'youre a slut' but theres 2 factors men have to think about firstly women love sex as much as men do. and its easier for a woman to get sex than a man. guys have to go through what russell brand calls 'the knobstacle course' basically guys have to do the open the escalation the generate attraction, the taking out on dates etc. women all they have to do is say 'i consent' and theyre getting laid. and lets be honest no matter what the girl looks like some guy will step out to the plate and take a swing.
guys get bent out of shape that girls sleep with other men because the guy will imagine what his girl got up to, whether it be 'i bet she never used condoms' 'i bet she let all these guys cum inside her' 'i bet they had a bigger dick then me' 'i bet she fucked a black dude with one of those monster dicks' 'i bet she let them fuck her in the ass but she wont let me fuck her in the ass' or what ever insecurity it is that you have. and guess why you think that??? because you do it! you mentally compare the girl you are having sex with the previous ones 'yeah she aint as skinny as the last one' 'her tits arent as nice' 'she lies there like a bag of potatoes' 'she isnt as tight'
and guess what if youre a judgmental guy you aint fun and more importantly she aint gonna stick around for very long because all you are doing is being critical and she'll get fed up

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Didn't even need to read your post, I guessed from the title that this is purely your problem, not hers. Making out means nothing, I mean, literally zero. So you can round that figure down to about 12 guys she's actually fucked. Either way it's normal for a girl of her age, if not slightly under average.

Every girl you will ever love in your life has had another guy's dick and sploodge in her face. And she loved it! The sooner you accept this about women, the sooner you will be successful with them.

Just think, our mothers/grandmothers probably did filthy stuff like getting 'nigga flipped' and a heavy facial once upon time.

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lol you guys are ruthless, the OP's self esteem must be on the floor right now lmao.

Here's a trick that helps me accept that belief

As a man, if you could bang alot of sexy vagina would you do it?
Yes.
If you could eat all that playboy mansion pussy(clean pussy) would you do it?
Yes.
You would endulge in vaginal juices for a whole day if you could... have them feed you grapes and blow air onto your balls.

Now, why cant she do it?

She can.

Kill the double standards. Accept it.

Most girls dont do that anyway.
So the trick is, become successfull with girls by learning pick up and you'll never care what a girl does ever again.
Why? because the most successful PUAS know that none of that shit matters. lol. why? mmm could be because he has options...is more sexually open minded... realizes life is short and he could do whatever the fuck he wants.
Life is way to short not to be having fucking orgies every weekend, but yea... society's current way of thinking hasnt caught up.... maybe 500 years from now my my grand children keep teaching my beliefs the world will be a crazy ass place.

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If i get elected for office i will make every girl a slut , vote for me, save america !

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If I'm trying to get in a relationship with a 23 year old woman and she tells me she has been with 17 men... I'm running out the door as fast as I can (after I become #18).

Maybe I just don't like to be with a chick who's been passed around, but would feel like a skank to me.

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well what happens is women go through life stages, they go through a dick carousel stage from 17-24. What the op needs to do is to date her and depending on his goals, and how she is in the relationship either keep her as a fb, get rid of her, or make a gf... Again how she is with the op should be the priority....

But in defense of the op high lay count in a women, most times turn out shitty gf(mono). But what i have a problem is the attitude, i think he should just date her, and again categorize her based on mutual relationship not based on past sexual history.

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I saw this recently which is very relevant to what your post

What I find odd is that people count how many men/women they've slept with - especially if it's a high number (like 57)

So true, its just society has made this the only acceptable thing not to sleep around. Its the 20th centuary girls can have fun as much as any guy and if talk to a girl who says i've fucked 20+ guys i personally well done.

Who am i to judge and put her down for enjoying herself. SEX IS NATURE its in our human hormones. Its fun so why shouldnt woman be allowed.

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Best solution to this and all these threads is: Don't ask, don't tell, don't find out.

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I find it disturbing that you think this is the behavior of a normal woman...
We have been in the 21st century for years. How can you not know what century we are in?

I find it disturbing that you are taking my response out of context... By the way, what is contribution to the op... Any opinions or suggestions??.... Finally, how many women have you seduce as a MAN? Thanks in advance

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It's not alot.

I'll let you in on a little secret... Just get it in your head that there is a good chance she (and every other girl you ever talk to from here on out) has been fucked by 17 guys AT ONCE.

Is it true? Probably not. But if you take it to an extreme like that... it doesn't make you feel bad at all when you find out it's really only 40 over the last 5 years.

You will never find a girl who's a virgin but a cock sucking freak. You're chasing a unicorn if that's what you're after.

a sad truth is that girls with no sexual experience are usually really bad at sex, think of it like a sport you usually get better at it with practice and experience. i know some guys want to be a girls first but it to be the best ever or the girl to be untainted. i do understand it because you think if the girls has been with several guys she must be a slut or dirty (i dont mean in a good way) she could be ridden with stds or be pregnant or both.

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Sometimes i like to live in the past when i couldnt give such constructive advice as you.

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