Thank you for your feedback!

TheMajikalMethod.com, yeah I know, that I seem like I plan everything, but it is because I like to know certain outcomes. It doesn't just follow me when gaming/dating, but in every day life. I am still learning, so any feedback is always welcome.

Small update with my own thoughts on the process:

She did not write "Good morning", but she did re-initiate contact with me via. text message on facebook, so we're back to texting again. She probably wants to keep in touch till sunday, I assume, as its all new and exciting for her.

I guess I can keep it running, but slowly responding (3-4 messages) per day. Don't wanna show too much attention already.

Meanwhile i've initiated contact with an HB9 from my university and attempted to game an asian HB7 who was new at my workplace, and i had to be her mentor for the day.

Update;

Before the date, we've kept in touch everyday, 24/7. I tried responding as slow as i could, so I could keep it to a max of 4-5 messages per day. I had to build some sort of suspense as she would write me a message if I didn't respond for a whole day.

I went on the date with her yesterday. Things usually never go as planned, but I'd say the date went Good.

I greeted her with a kiss on the cheek, and we went into starbucks. She ordered for herself and took out her wallet, but I intervened and told the barista to put my coffee on the same tab, with me paying. She initially resisted a little, but agreed almost instantly. I love that she doesnt expect me to pay automatically!

We walked around for two hours - but it felt like alot more! Not meant negatively, because we were really having a good chemistry. Laughs, kino, teasing etc - even from her.

We didn't go hand in hand until much later in the date due to cold weather and her having her hands in her pockets as she did not have gloves.

But I took her to a park and finally kissed her after about 1,5 hours of dating. We took the same bus home, in which SHE kissed ME goodbye. Big win. Overall she showed ALOT of IOI's.

Chances of F-close are very large at the moment.

I would like your guys opinion on my next plan of engagement on the next date.

She told me her GF is having her birthday this friday, so she is going to be celebrating her either friday or saturday.
This is what I wrote to her in our text conversation after the date;

"[...] Pancakes at my place this weekend "
Her response was; "Wow, so you're basically inviting me for pancakes this weekend? "

She said yes, but also mentioned that she might drop by my place after her girlfriend and her finish up celebrating her this friday.

If not, I would plan on F-closing her this weekend;

Plan is: Pancakes, Kino, eat, kino, Movie, Kino -> SEX.

Anything comments, guys?

EDIT: Unfortunate repost of above post

No comments other than VERY well done and I would strongly suggest going with your gut with this girl moving forward as you have done to this point because you are adept at this shit. If someone here or anywhere else tells you "yo you should've pulled her to a sex location to fuck" just ignore and move ahead with your plan. Cue Queens of the Stone Age "smooth sailing from here on out........."

Hehe, thanks alot, oceanx!

A small question regarding this specific HB.

Seeing as she became single about one month ago (from an about one year relationship) and the emergence of the relationship between me and her, however new it is, I still see a number of pictures of her and her recent ex on facebook.

This might sound silly, but should I be aware of something here?

I know, from my own experience and other friends who had breakups, that the girl usually removes pictures of her and her ex together after a short amount of time.

What is your guys experience with this how long would you let it slide, and not mention this to her, if you had thoughts of having an LTR with the girl?

She is coming over this weekend and she wants to spend the night - f-close incoming. I will not be mentioning anything about this to her, but how long is it really natural for a girl to keep photos of her and her ex on facebook?

I am not panicking or anything. I am simply reflecting, as to be sure of certain pre-cautions seeing as my interest is an LTR with this specific HB.

Ignore the issue forever. She is seeing you and that's what matters. Maybe she doesn't maintain her photo albums on Facebook. Maybe she does. In either case, in my view it is irrelevant.

Alright! Update time!

We went to her place for pancakes and movie.
I did a 50% f-close. We could only do oral, because apparently there was no chance of me penetrating her. And afterwards I simply couldn't get a hard on. We tried, and simply gave up. We then took a late night shower and she finished me off. She told me; we will get it right the next time

We watched Tv afterwards where we kissed for a while. I tried escalating, by lifting the sheet, but she immediately said; "Can't we sleep now?"

I said; Sure, I'm just moving the sheet because its too warm. All while thinking "Fuck, fuck, fuck".

Well we went to sleep. I has to get up at 6 while she had her dayoff. So she stayed In bed while i drank the coffee she made for me.

I told her; Listen, yesterday was not your fault. I want things to be perfect from the start, so I put alot of pressure on myself, which is why things didnt go as planned.

She replied: "Oh, I understand. While we are at it, i want you to know that what we are doing is only for fun. I just got out of a 1,5yo relationsship, and now i just want to be myself. I dont want you to get the wrong impression"

I thought; "damn. I must've fucked something up really badly". So i replied; "im glad you told me. Its good to be on the same page".

The signs that ive received from her up until last night seemed to be "i want an ltr". I mean why date me, talk about us in the future, text me all Day long - everyday if all she wants is FWB?

Anyways - we talked before i left for work, and kissed/held hands. We kissed goodbye, and i told her to write me so we could meet up again this tuesday or thursday.

She will be coming tomorrow early because i left my charger.

Any idea on my next step? Seems like i fucked up besides not going 100% f-close.

Im not sure if i should bring the subject of being FWB and not LTR up again tomorrow and just tell her, that it is cool with me, and whereever we end up in the future is also cool.

The way I see it, is that I have two options at the moment.

1: Tomorrow when I meet her, so she can give me my charger, I will tell her in a mature way, that what she said to me about only doing this for good-times and not anything related to LTR, is perfectly fine with me. Right now we should only have fun while being together and what ever the future brings is fine with me. Then see how she reacts, kiss her goodbye and leave. Wait till around 20 o'clock (she gets of at 17) and text her something charming/flirty as an opener. (ideas for what to text?)

Possible outcome: a) she thinks that i am way too invested into this and starts to lose interest. b) She finds it nice that we both have same ideas of where we are headed - i fuck her once or twice and thus make her want more until she wants an LTR.

2: Greet her with a kiss, and tell her that I am happy she took time to bring me the charger. Wish her a nice day at work and leave. This is the less investing option, and might show her that i've taken a step backwards in our relationsship.

Possible outcome: She either a) Sees that I am taking a step backwards in an attempt to pull her towards me and finds it nice. b) she gets thrown off by my lack of interest.

She has no idea what she wants, and what she wants is probably changing based on the moment she ponders it.
She's mostly just wanting to make sure you don't get weird and clingy.

Go with option 2.

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RSDTyler

Yeah, that is my thinking as well.

I went with this. She gave it to me, and told her 'thanks', kissed her twice. She said, "dont worry about it! i gotta go to work now though".

I proposed to keep her company on the way to work, but she said; "no, its okay". Wished her a nice day, and we went our seperate ways.

Yesterday, at her place in the morning, I propsed a date on either tuesday(tomorrow) or thursday.
Question is now; I sent her a text on fb yesterday which included a funny story (as per usual of our conversations before) and a small reminder for her to look her work schedule, so we can find a new date.

She didnt respond to this, yet she has seen the message late last night. Its fine though, because we do it often - both of us.

So .. what should my next move be? I feel like that if I write another text later today, I would seem clingy.

Your posts make me think that you like this girl more than she likes you. And I think she senses this as well.

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RSDTyler

Understandable. Up until our last date, i thought we were on equal footing, because of the flow that we had - constant texting, her wanting my attention, etc.. After our date it all of a sudden might have seemed like it tilted a little due to a small yet wrong formualtion i said. Thus the tilt.

My wrong formulation was that she kept asking me if it was her fault that I couldnt get a hard on after we failed penetration. I kept saying no, and the morning after I repeated that it was not her fault, but I wanted our first time together (not as in virgin - none of us are) to be perfect, and thats the reason for me having too high expectations of myself which resulted in the lack of hard on. This is where she mentioned the fact about us just being FWB.

But the interest is still there, considering we kissed this morning when she gave me my charger. I assume?
If she had lost all interest in me, she would've refused my kiss. Instead she glady recieved two kisses.

Meeting up with her this week seems impossible. I know for a fact, that she has to work this weekend til 20 o'clock, and thats way too late for her.

The two days that I proposed which was tuesday and thursday cannot work either as she has to work late as well - so she says. But she says "Maybe next week .. "
And I can't do wednesday and friday.

How should I play the rest of the week out?

My friends tell me to keep texting with her, as we have done the past two weeks. Freezing her out at this point would do more damage than harm, they say. Additionally her texts seem more .. distant and short now - unlike before saturday. The texts she wrote me were long and contained practically 3-4 conversations in one text.

As far as I see it there are two possibilities here: 1) She is disappointed by what happened saturday night or 2) She wants to slow down everything - maybe even to the point where everything we built up, naturally dissolves.

What do you guys think? How should I play this?

As mentioned before, this is an HB that I'd like an LTR with - which was basically being built up until our 50% f-close this saturday.

This is a huge defeat for me. I feel like shit after the events on saturday night.