Can i just say one thing all you guys have missed i think - yes its good to do this date and that date and some dates work better for certain people who have different frames just like different PUA techniques work better.
MY POINT IS - I never ever ever state what the date is until shes agreed to see me.
Me - Hey fancy doing something sometime... x
her - Yeah what do you have in mind...x
Me - Well i cant tell you yet we're not best friends but you will have some good fun ! ill pick you up thursday 7pm! x
her - hmmm i dont know ! i dont know what it is or anything

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Me - Well if i tell you, you'll be with me you'll have good fun and you might even get to laugh at me. Wear a coat and gloves it might be a little cold.
Her - Hmmm, ok 7pm is fine this better not be any creepy stuff from you !x
Me - hahaha dont be silly ! should i tell you ? x
Her - YESSSSS !!! x
Me - Say please and ill maybe tell you. x
Her - Pretty please

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Me - OK god damn ruining the surprise - we're going on a cute little ghost tour so i can see how scared you get.x
her - OMG that sounds amazing bla bla bla...
basically all i did was build up mystery and excitement she agreed and didnt even know what shes agreeing too. My point is i know shes coming for my company and to have fun. She said Yes straight away and the hesitated and then came back even without me telling her.
Only reason ill tell a girl where shes going is if its a first meet - but in that case i had met that girl in a bar and kiss closed her.