I think the biggest mistakes guys make, are texting girls who they briefly met (either at a club or on the street) expecting them to come out on a date with them after the first or second text message. I think most girls like to have a sense of who they're going out with. And a lot of girls hand out numbers with the intention of never responding; I don't think most women have the confidence to say no thanks to most men.

it was something that I forgot though, texting too much is also dangerous. one can say things that can be misinterpreted and it also can allow way too much room for mistakes.


Things are working out in my text message correspondence


I'm curious do you guys not flirt over text until after a date?

P.S. Games thanks for your input early on

What little texting I do is always fun and flirtatious. IF a girl seems to be making an effort at texting, yet doesn't want to meet up yet, I may go ahead and do it a bit more, but I try to get them on the phone instead.

But I'm not seeing this girl make any effort in these texts. When she seems disinterested and has already said no to meeting up, I may ping her in a week or two, but then I forget about it. I experimented with a lot of girls and my rate of success with disinterested texts and refusal to go out was almost zero.

You may be able to theoretically text a girl into wanting to date you, but that time is almost certainly better spent meeting girls who are more interested in person.

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RSDTyler

Quit trying to "game" over text message

"What's up"

"What are you doing"

"Come hang out with me"

"**address**"

That's it.

No fluff talk. Just handling logistics. Closing.

A.B.C. = Always Be Closing

This shit you're sending is not closing... Its running around in circles.