Maybe you're gay bro!

I don't think there is anything wrong with you wanting super hot chicks. But do you have the style, lifestyle and game to get them? What's your success been? Have you been practicing/approaching? Your friend is not confident in your abilities, but maybe he has a point. If you have been talking about hot girls for years, not approaching, still dress shitty and have gotten no results, he could be looking out for your happiness by telling you shoot lower.It's up to YOU to show people that you can get hot women.

If you find 1/5 of women attractive, that's not a pipe dream at all. It sounds like your friend is telling you to date fat girls. Is he? I'm not much better looking than that guy either. I find maybe 1/4 of women to be physically acceptable and probably only 1/8 am I attracted to in any significant way. I do just fine.

I think I may have made a bad example, misdiagnosing things. That girl I posted is basically out of my/your league. The only way she'd be interested is if she's pretty messed up.

Let's try this
http://imgur.com/a/JkRzj

Do you find at least one of them attractive enough? Because if so, that's very achievable. But those girls are a full two tiers below my previous example girl.

If the answer is still "0", then we probably do have a problem.

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How can you put women into 'tiers' based on something subjective like their attractiveness?

I think the one you labeled 'a pipe dream' could easily be among the women in this link

@neo87:

I won't lie to ya I probably don't have the game to get those kind of girls since i'm still trying to figure out the right things to say to them but I believe I got the style to do it and I believe that I can make the lifestyle changes to make it happen if I was taught how. To answer your other question yeah i've been approaching them but only in clubs and most of those Asian girls I tried to get at are stuck up as hell over there because they're really cliquish there and they always try to drive away guys to try to get at them unless those guys know somebody in their clique or group. To be fair though I believe I would have a better chance to talk to those girls outside of the club because they most likely would have their guards down and be more open to talking to people outside of the club/bar environment but that opportunity has never happened because none of my friends know those kind of girls so I never had the ability to ask anyone to help introduce me to them. I honestly still believe I can do it but I just need the right opportunity to make a move.

@Versalis:

Is it a bad thing if I find ALL those girls in your link attractive? I honestly would be really happy having even one of those girls! lol!

Anyway he's not telling me to date fat girls but he's telling me to "compromise" and not focus on getting the type of girls that I want because the opportunity isn't there yet so he's telling me to just settle for what I can get and he says maybe in the future what I really want will come....

Not at all. I find all of them to be very attractive. That's the upper end of what I can manage. Most of the girls I date are a tier below that. I was just curious if you have unrealistically high standards. Some guys come here expecting to get nothing but the absolute most beautiful women in existence. Not even "the prettiest girl in my high school" but more like "the girl who literally makes her living off of her looks". Which tends to be one in thousands.

You can absolutely date girls like I posted. You'll have a heck of a time getting ONS with these girls, however. I'd say %70 of ONS is based on looks. Looks is maybe %25 of dating. So your prospects for pretty girlfriends or FWBs is a lot higher than racking up very cute ONS.
I won't say there is no merit in being more open minded in the type of woman you'll date. I certainly have a type, yet I have dated a lot of girls that didn't fit that type. But they've always intrigued me in one way or another.

What you want isn't all that hard to find. What are you doing to meet new women right now?

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@Versalis:

Most of the time these days i'm just trying to talk to everybody and network and make friends and (hopefully) meet girls through them. I used to go clubbing and bar hopping a lot with the purpose of trying to get at a girl in mind but it never worked out like I hoped it would so I stopped doing that because from my experience most girls are expecting u to hit on them in the bars or clubs so of course they would have their guard up and not talk to dudes trying to get at them

I like this. I like this alot! Girls just try harder to get you're attention this way too!, and It will help with rejection too. It's easier to takes rejection if you getting some in already. You won't be so needy either

Only go for girls you're interested in, it hurts you and them to do otherwise, and the effort is not worth it.

let me ask this question what is your mindset in this? maybe you are setting yourself up to fail. if you are seeing her as an object then as a person youll fail, the other part is if youre only trying to pick up one type of girl i admit theres certain girls i like and to be honest they are unobtainable if a girl likes black guys or millionaires or guys that are 6'3 or drive a sports car i know im not gonna get that girl because im none of the above or have millions or a sports car. if i set myself in the mindset of i wanna date kate upton or emily ratajkowski or alessandra ambrosio i aint gonna get anywhere because i aint getting any of those.

maybe you should broaden your horizons, im not saying date uglys or 1 or 2s but girls you normally wouldnt go for if you like big tits maybe go for more athletic, or vice versa, if you only go for brunettes try blondes.

let me tell you a funny story a work colleague told me, one of his wife's friends said to him she will only date an algerian greek mix who is a doctor and is on 70,000 a year basic who drives a sports car, AND ONLY THAT! she will not date anything else. why? because shes is of the same ethnic origin and doesnt want to date out of it bear in mind she lives in the uk what are the chances she'll get what she looking for?

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You seem intelligent and have reasonable desires. Obviously there is a problem somewhere, but I'm not finding it SPAM.

How many new women in your age range... 18-30 are you meeting in a given month? How many of them are "your type"?

What I'm starting to wonder is if you like really outgoing girls and you're in accounting or something and you're mostly meeting more reserved girls?

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@xcrazyoney2kx:

I'm not sure where to start in answering your question but i'll try my best. My mindset is to want to date girls who are at the very least cute who are outgoing who like to party a lot. I'm not a big fan of the nerdy type girls who just stay at home a lot and play video games, watch youtube, etc.

@Versalis:

Probably around 3-4 if i'm lucky. The only time I have to meet girls are my days off from work because i'm constantly busy. Even then in my days off I only get to meet girls if there are parties going on or if friends of mine bring female friends with them when we hang out. Not many of them are my type though but i'm in the process of trying to make friends with people who know a lot of girls that are my type.

I don't go clubbing or bar hopping anymore to try and meet girls there because most girls there in my experience are cliquish and they have their guards up since they expect dudes to try and get at them so of course they'd blow me off instantly along with most guys unless you're a celebrity like Brad Pitt, Manny Pacquiao, Drake, etc.

I got what the others said and I agree pussy is pussy. But at the end of the day at least for me I go after the cutest chicks imaginable every Damn time. Cause why not?!? Life is wayyyyyyy too fucking short to settle bro. Ya feel me!? I'm trying to bag and tag 10's and 10's only. And by 10 that also means their personality. If she's a bitch then fuck it not worth my time. and you're friend might be jealous and or hating which it sounds like both. Cut out the fat from your life. I did and I couldn't be happier

Agree and I re read the previous posts. I guess your friend doesn't sound like a total dick but my philosophy is never settle for less. And damn Versalis who are the chicks? Don't kno abt you guys but I counted two 8's like 3-nine and halfs and the rest were 10's straight up. We need to chill more bro. Lol

I wasn't trying to say these girls were average. They're very, very pretty. But not uncommonly beautiful. It's normal to find girls that look like that in any coffee shop or Forever 21. I just wanted to see if he was looking for Maxim cover models or something.

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