Tyler/Owen said it well in his breakup video, women swing from branch to branch like a monkey; meaning they have an abundance of men lined up/willing to take a crack at them. NOT ALL women are this way, some (the smart ones) actually take the time to heal and self reflect, becoming better ppl in the process. The woman that swings from rel to rel doesn't put the time in to work on herself so largely remains the same until reality taps her on the shoulder some time later and she's left with no other option than to change her ways or keep getting involved in superficial relationships.

As guys we don't have that immediate abundance after a breakup, we don't typically have another girl lined up so we're forced to reflect and work on ourselves, rise from the ashes so to speak better versions of ourselves.

thanks, the only reason ive been going insane is because i didnt know why she broke it off, but i guess your right if i keep trying with no results why would i want to be in that relationship. I know if you love something you should let it go and if its ment to be they will come back, so i will take your advice on that. Since she lives next door i will run into alot which is good and bad, but like you said keep it short and simple.

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My ex went batshit crazy, and even used the police to intimidate me at the end of our horrid relationship (if she knew I was on here, guaranteed she'd use that to contact the police to have my intimidated some more). Do you think I'll ever have resolution on that relationship if I sit around hoping she'll come around? NO. FUCK IT! The only resolve I need is to move on, and put her toxic ass behind me, way behind me in the rear view mirror.

Shit happens, you can dwell in the past and feel perpetually stuck or decide to accept the situation as it is and move forward with your life.

Question is, which will you choose?