She has a boyfriend? Disgraceful.

She was a 9 now she's a 10?

Oneitis alert.

lol it is not onetitis...just underestimated her in terms of looks and most guys who saw her say she is a straight ten..no doubt about that...that is why i am trying to see how far i can go with her..she surely enjoys my company and laughs at most things i say so i just wanna capitalize...

quick update..she blocked me on facebook....now here is my interpretstion of events...she told me she has a boyfriend but she does not love him and then she was showing me I.O.Is..but we live in a small town and it is like nowadays my reputation as a player has spread because i will have a chick messaging me first on facebook then wanting to go out with me but days later blocking me...my facebook wall is socially well proofed but i think that is hurting my chances more than helping me...now my question now that this girl has blocked me on facebook and i have her number when and what should i text? i suspect she has heard of my exploits and hence blocked me..should i text her to get into comfort building? and incase she changes her number and we live in the same neighbourhood i will obviously bump into her what should i say?

I'm currently dating a chick, exactly like the one you went out with (PS: She's a muslim too). I tried to go for the kiss on the first date, and guess what? For the first time in the history of dating I get rejected. I wanted to walk away, but I really like her personality and style, so I'll hang a bit and see where this goes. Many of my high value friends went for her and she even turned down their date invitations, and when I mean high value friends, I mean ones who conquer clubs and any places they walk into.

You have to go slow with things with these types of girls, but I tell you what, they're no different than other girls. The only thing that you can't do with these types of girls is to fuck other chicks while dating them, because that will definitely drive them away (opposite to the general PUA rule which says that you'll become the reward they must pursue).

If you're willing to go through this, you have to be patient but I'd suggest moving on like other people would tell you here. Plus, I just read your updates and it seems like she's losing interest and you're just developing more attraction to her. Move on before it's too late.

Humm... It could also mean "boobjob alert"

To answer your question, personaly I'd step out of gaming for a moment. You already have a reputation as a player, so PUA SOP will not do you any good, it will just be more of the same. Get her off-balance by saying what you really want to say. Personaly, I'd simply ask something like: "Everything was fine and now you blocked me out of nowhere. Care to explain? I think I deserve at least that."

If she goes for it, you have a chance to mend fences and get on her good side again. If she does not answer, just cut her off.

Assuming you have to (or want to) cut her off, when you see her on the street if she comes talking to you, be cool but civil. Don't make a scene but also make sure she gets the point that you do not care for her anymore. If she ignores you, ignore her too.

Dude...she's blocked you! Stop, it's over. She's not worth it, I don't care if her pussy smells like freshly cut jasmine. You keep up with this shit and you'll have some real problems on your hands.

quick update: she contacted me today seems eager to meet up and she is really flirty....i think it is really on.

for future posts, your leaving things way out of context of what happened. your not telling everyone everything. for instance did you text her or did you not call her at all

i did not contact her till then..she is the one who iniated the contact.

I don't know dude... Sounds like it's time to find a new girl...

I hope that doesn't sound harsh or heartbreaking, but she's kind of all over the place. She comes over but then leaves immediately (I agree with others that you moved too fast on that kiss; watch one of those kino-escalation videos). She tells you she has a boyfriend (that's not game over but def. not good). She tells you she wants to be friends and Facebook banters with you.

It sounds like you're in the friend-zone. As annoying and illogical as that concept is, I think that's where you are in her mind.

Hang out with her if it makes you happy, but I wouldn't be expecting a hook-up anytime soon (or ever...). Maybe it's best to spend that "hook-up" time and effort energy on the next girl...