Come on, that might be the case if you're in a place where there is a lot of business for the girls, but as I said in London clubs there are not a lot of punters these days .. the girls are 'self employed' and if there is no business they don't get PAID. That creates frustration which leads to anger which is channelled at customers who aren't shelling out .. as they blame you for their lack of income. FACT. I am very nice and polite as you suggest .. it will only shield you so much as some of the girls wont respect that you are a gentleman.

Also, you cant generalise too much about behaviour, some are friendly, others are cold hearted bitches .. its a microcosm of the world .. but skewed towards a more cynical reality due to the nature of the business. If you convince yourself you are living in a land of unicorns and fairies fine, but imo you are deluding yourself as women are not all pleasant lovely creatures as you would like to believe just as men aren't either. human beings have a range of personality traits, some pleasant and some deeply unpleasant.