Timo..Ever think about being a detective? You'd be awesome at it

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Yes, but then try to get friends with you (if you see that it would be appropriated), she'll feel less pressure. Her story was not easy tho, then if you see that you need more time to ask her out again then wait more, you don't have any other option besides wait, so do it carefully.
Less she feel the pressure more you'll win her trust and comfort.
But still, continue creating comfort and show that you care about her.

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She's afraid of meeting you because her ex MIGHT find out? I smell some BS.
As Timo said, even if it's true, that's not something that anyone should worry about. Are you trying to tell me that he might not find out through SPAM or social networking?
Another thing that might be iffy is that she is using you as nomenclature to get her ex jealous, and doesn't want to meet you because she's not actually interested. Putting your name on SPAM status all of a sudden could be just so someone sees it.

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Haha, thanks

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Okay, after the few days, ive learned new stuff.

This saturday she called me on the phone - so we actually talked for the very first time. It was a 15-min short call, where she indirectly wanted me to know, that she still wanted me. We continue to write everyday, all day, and yesterday, she called me again. Here we talked for a whole 4 hours during the night, where she had to get up early the same morning. Yet she never wanted to end the call (Only reason it ended, was because her battery died. She tried putting in the charger but it went off again shortly. So i decided to call it a night). The converstation was entirely about me and her doing stuff - dirty too.

Initially though, it was casual, and we just talked. I asked her, why we haven't met yet. She said; "I don't know why we haven't met yet."

Theres an 8 year age gap between me and her; so i asked her: "Is it because of my age?"
Her response was; "A little bit.."

But her willingness to talk about dirty situations with me and her gave me a reason to not give up yet.

The vixen that sat next to me in math class also told me the dirty things she wanted to do to me.

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Difference is that; In all the 4 months we've talked, when I tried talking dirty, she rejected it. So i was caught by a complete surprise last night.

You've been talking to her for 4 months? Dang. I hope everything works out between you two. Have you ever seen her? Maybe came by her work to sneak a peek?

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don't get into this. trust me. Like pickwick's, if heard of similar bullshit stories from friends. don't go there.

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Yeah. I probably have some work to do with my inner game.

I've been online gaming alot, and I get bored really fast. I don't know why. This girl is really refreshing to chat with, hence why we've been able to do it for so long. I guess there a small part inside of me, that doesn't want to let go of that.

I tried testing her, saying a friend of mine told me to dump her, because we haven't met yet. Her reaction was intense. She wrote me a loooong message telling me how sad she would be if I dumped her etc.

The most important thing is that she now knows that theres an expiration date, for my waiting. I gave her the ultimatum.

What did the message say?

Why can't she just meet you at your place, in the front yard just to say hello and prove herself. Who's going to find out about that?

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sounds like you got feelings for this girl but you dont wana get burned. If she cant meet up just move on too many fish in the sea..you know that one saying.

I seriously don't know man. Im starting to think that she might have commitment issues. She wants me, but isn't ready to seal the deal yet.

Here are nitpicks of the conversation;

Me: A good friend of mine told me today, that i should dump you, because we havent met yet. Wanna guess what my response was?
Her: I hope it was something like we haven't met yet, but you know the waiting will be worth it.
Me: I just told him, that we'd probably meet soon.
Her: You're probably right..

After this, we both went to bed. The next morning I looked at my phone and saw her giant message.

She had attached a picture of a red heart with my first letter + her first letter. Along with the following text:

Goodmorning :-*
When I looked at this picture, I became really .. touched inside of me. I looked at it for a long time before i fell asleep. But before I fell asleep I thought back to what your friend had said to you. I tried to think of if there'd be more Pro's or Con's to you dumping me. I could only find Pro's. So I tried looking for Pro's and Con's for me. I could only find Con's. No matter how many times I went through it, it would always be the same result...
So I closed my eyes, and thought of our future house by the forest. We both looked very happy as we both stood and looked upon our house, hand in hand. I got such a lovely feeling though my body, when i opened my eyes again. No matter what happens in the future, I hope that you will be a part of it.

I was speechless.

Hahah that made me giggle man.. Manipulation at it finest.


You obviously don't have much experience with women, and that's fine. We all have to start somewhere. Just ride this one out and take it as a learning experience when its over.

She can't SPAM video chat you man? Really.

What does showing her face and sayin hello have to do with commitment?

Ask her to send you that same heart picture directly next to her face in the mirror. Can you do that?

Just so you can feel more secure about this.. Can she at least do that for you?

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You've never met this girl and she dreams of getting a house with you???

RUN. RUN, FAR AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. This is probably not even a real girl, its more likely some chick / dude who doesn't like you and trying to wind you up.

Basically you need to set a real date to meet up. If she makes excuses or flakes with some "emergency" last minute excuse, just say " Ok I guess you weren't serious about me after all. Call me if you've decided on a date to meet-up. If not, take care and all the best". Then go no contact, NO MATTER HOW MUCH SHE GUILT TRIPS YOU BY TEXT / PHONE. Be clear; No date = No reply.