Edinburgh in scotland, if you could tell me that would be great?

Oooooooops sh*t, i ended up quite drunk last night and ended up going back to a girls room, i didn't get laid but everything but. is this bad or should i not worry about it?

haha nice one, nah its not a bad thing tons of people will be getting laid ect, only question next is does she see you as a one night stand or someone she wants a relationship with?

If its the latter is that what you want? if so then enjoy having sex regularly for rest of year. If she sees you as a one night stand then your in same situation as you were ebfore you went back to hers.

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Take control of the party, apply all what you know from mystery methods, make people jump in and out of your frames, i failed to do this in my first term of uni and paid the price !
You will have a great time, uni is a fantastic place to learn social dynamics in a care free environment. Sex won't come to you, but i will if you apply MM

I believe to be a one night stand since after we finished she told me she had a boyfriend, double oops. So i think i'm in the same situation as before, probably going to be really really awkward next time i see her but i'm not going to make it an issue, even if she does.


What do you believe is the best way to take control of a party without seeming too cocky or a control freak? I find sometimes the people who try the hardest to stand out do so, but no one tends to like them because they seem so forward and generally become annoying as it often leads to AMOGing.

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ONE WEEK UPDATE!

I have been drunk every single night, had sex with two girls, kissed a lot, almost had sex with a virgin and never been so hungover in all my life.

But now I think i want a relationship with one of the girls - a week in and i'm infatuated already . But the problem is the fact that she is really really really fucking confusing. I'm 17 and can't go into any clubs or drive and she's 18 and can do both.

I met her properly on wednesday and we talked a bit but not too much and got to know her a bit (what she's studying, where she's from etc). Then on the thursday night when she came back from the club she stayed up with me, just the two of us, in the lounge. Then i suggest a film in my room and after just lying talking for a couple of hours till about 4am she decided she wasn't tired and came down. I had a single bed so we had to get pretty close and she kept putting her arm on my chest and holding my hand. I push/pulled a little and we kissed(nothing too passionate). Then we put off the film cause decided it was too bright and she slept over. We stayed up most of the night just talking and got an hour sleep then woke up about half 7 and talked till half 9 before she left cause she was tired and the bed was too small for us both. The next day we went to sunbeds together in town (she drove) and then went for a walk round the city. She laughed the whole time at pretty much everything i said and kept comparing me to her ex boyfriend (probably a bad thing) but she said i'm a bit nicer. Then we went back in her car with me occasionally putting my hand on hers when she was using the gear stick and some kino.

But i genuinely believe I have no chance with this girl and she now knows this after reading some of my texts with my best friend when she had my phone. She just sort of smiled and seemed really surprised. She knows i've been with other girls since i came here and play around a bit.

Any ideas?
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