Wrd! Aight! I appreciate the slap back to f'n reality. My phone is done communicating with her.

But I went ahead and replied to that bullshit anyway before you responded. I promise I am done: but this is what I said:

":) Good luck. I wouldn't waste my time worrying about you. But hey maybe you see me as competition. You should focus your energy on that beautiful girl instead of me. Tell her I send an Eskimo Kiss (little thing I showed her). Hope you feel as good as I do. It's a great way to feel."

In all honesty I feel amazing right now regardless, I am just very goal oriented lol, i go for what I want and I hate to give up. I will take your advice and no more phone communication at all.

Thanks for being so real with me!

if this is your way, don't take my advice, do things this way and see how they pan out so you can learn from it

if you honestly don't care about being treated this way, by all means continue

but from my point of view, I like girls that are respectful, if they joke around and tool you a bit, what ever roll with the punches and talk some shit for fun, but when it is downright serious and she's not joking around, she's not being playful, she is just being a rotten person, that's where the line gets drawn, there's no point in relieveing the tension from a situation where someone is insulting you or treating you like you are worthless, if you relieve the tension all that does is lets a person know it is ok to treat you that way (positive attention is like fuel for behavior)

I hear you: yea it was her sister who said you don't know me like that. She was just telling me what her sis said. I guess she probably could have left that out, but probably wanted to gauge my reaction. The guy talking about the guy code, I have a feeling was probably her sis or even possibly her. If it was her sis, she is just being protective and a punk, if it was her than she is fighting with a struggle of whether or not she wants to continue anything with me. As we work together there are some complications such as the very fact of us being together as co-workers is forbidden. And I also made it a point the first night we we're together to let her know I am not interested in a relationship (perhaps I should have clarified monogamous) I feel she is really into me based on her actions and perhaps she wants more. She took it upon herself to explain the multiple relationships in our work force that have been taking place for sometime under the radar insinuating that it would be ok.

I am done. I got a pretty cold reply from my above message: I ( am starting to assume perhaps it was a guy) I don't quite see any woman or a sister talking this way: " Oh trust me I'm not wasteing my energy on u at all lol as far as competition lol don't. Trip (name) & I r haveing one as we speak & I don't, Need eskimo kiss from my woman I get real ones all over so go use ur hand & ur imagination have good. Nigh lol I am" -PS spelling is all them not me lol.

I could see her writing this now that I think about it just because if I "was "haveing" one as we speak" I would not be texting any body!

Hell who knows. Hope you enjoyed the ride!
Thanks again!

Just thought this might be interesting to you all lol. So I go to work and well she is there. So I just say my normal whats up gangsta gangsta and carry on. Throughout the night you is texting a way. We talk here and there very light converstation. At one point she was showing the other girls her bruises from wrestling with my friend that night and I was like shut the fuck up lol, and everyone looked at me. Later I told her I almost leaked our little secret, I was trying to make it mysterious get her to reflect but she just looked at me like wtf like she didn't catch on and then I pointed it out and she was like oh, but didn't comment on the issue. Well later on thatnight a man and a women came in and she sat with them with his arm around her and everything. (I believe this may have been the guy who text be the previous night) I walked past them while she wasn't there and made eye contact with him, I think then it registered for him to who I was provided she told him, which would make sense. As I walked past the second time, he goes excuse me sweety can you get me a glass of water (In a huge gay voice) I just said yep sure thing no problem, after i left him & the girl he came with started laughing so I just told my manager - could you run a glass of water over there thanks. So my manager took it over there. Anyway after they left, awhile after, I told her: what you up to tonight? She said chilling. I said you wanna come over an play some beer pong? she said no. I left it alone tried to maintain a normal attitude and carried on with a semi-ignoring attitude towards her. Well all the girls had been talking about going out, I didn't get invite so i thought whatev - girls night out. So I was getting ready to leave and asked the guys whats up for tonight, they all said we're heading over to (******) everyone is there. They told me to come by if i wanted. (I felt kind of left out, because the girls didnt say anything to me) but hey.....whatever. So I went, Well "She" was there with the "guy" that came in with the other girl (she was sitting with) and the other girl & guys were at the opposite end of the bar, I asked where is everyone like i didn't see them and she goes: the "girl" is with her boyfriend. I asked how long they been together she said idk a couple weeks. I was like wow!

So either she cheated on him with me or they just hooked up right after. She obviously was looking for a relationship I didn't give it to her so she went out and got one. lol Good for her!

Hope you enjoy the update! Thanks for all the help. I'll let you know if anything changes