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Okay, I've seen a lot of posts that discourage the use of texting to escalate, build attraction, etc...And claims that texting should only be used to set up dates?
Is this also true for teenage game? I mean, let's be honest. That's all that teenage girls and guys do. The dude gets the number, they might go on a few dates, but other than that, 3/4 of all conversations that take place are straight up texting 24/7. I don't know why, but that's how it is.
My question is, as an 17 year old trying to get poon in a HS setting, would it be wise to just follow the social calibration and text girls?
Or would it be wise to change it up, and only use texts when I need to use it for logistical purposes? And make sure to escalate in person?
And please no bias, I'd like to know what I should do in my situation. The problem I'm having is I feel that if I don't text a girl I gamed, thanks to social calibration she's going to expect me to text her and once I don't she'll lost interest.
Somebody please clear this up for me. Thank you.
To be honest, we communicate to each other by texting and talking. When we can't have a conversation face to face, it's really good to send messages. It's totally normal for both adults and teenagers. There are lots of dating apps on top1apk which are based on sending texts. I mean texting is the initial step to come toward to a date. If they can't find a common voice, there is no date and it ends. No one hurts or feels anything. That's all good.