one day after being dumped her friend approaches me online



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PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2012 3:22 am 
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ok seems to be some seriously conflicting opinions here. I'm pretty sure i can fuck the friend. My ex is the hotter one and i had heavy makeout on a street corner in public on first date and fuck close on second date. the friend is a joke compared to my ex. a friend of mine went out with my ex 4-5 times and he couldn't get her to give him a kiss on the cheek for fuck sakes. am not saying i'm the shit because i suck at relationships, but if these girls have a bros before hoes friendship with each other than my ex will never get involved with me again. Either i can just go out with this chick to make the ex jealous which might not even work, or i can fuck her to make her jealous, or i can just ignore this chick and just go on with my life and go after other chicks in the meantime and if the shark comes back then fine otherwise go on with my life.

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haha. Alright fair enough.


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So EddieFews,

Is there any angle left with the ex. She doesn't see me as alpha enough for her and despite the fact that i fucked her brains out, some of my other qualities seem to way the balance against me. I suspect no contact and just fuck other girls/work on myself is the only thing i can do now.

One thing is she sends me a text with a picture today saying hey look it's obama and he waved at me from the car. I reply back, "hope that wasn't the highlight of your day loser :p" (she and her friends call eachother loser for fun. again this is one day later, so not sure what kinds of games she is playing now.
well.. if she is still contacting you by any means then you still have a chance at having her back. You just have to change you communication habbits because she doesn't deserve the same SPAM as she did in a relationship. She has to miss what you guys "had" so cutting contact is necessary.

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I think she's just fucking with my head. If I didn't respond at all she'd think it was childish.

Think I just need to get away from this chick completely. Her game is way past mine and I am only gonna fuck myself for future girls if I let her destroy me


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dude, she won't destroy you. you are a man, you cannot be destroyed!

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I think she's just fucking with my head. If I didn't respond at all she'd think it was childish.

Think I just need to get away from this chick completely. Her game is way past mine and I am only gonna fuck myself for future girls if I let her destroy me
1) Nobody can fuck with your head, that is of course unless you let them.
2) Ignoring someone IS "childish".

If you're in a vulnerable place right now I'd simply inform her that you'll be busy over the next bit, but that you'll contact her at some point in the future. Don't tell her why as this would simply affirm to her the hold she has over you and also add a little bit of intrigue particularly if being unavailable to her is uncharacteristic of you. Moreover, it gives you some power back; it almost goes without saying that you've already given her too much of it.

She wasn't a one-night-stand. Most guys on this forum have no context for understanding relationships, they only think "I've gotta game, I've gotta be that PUA!". You have a history with her, she knows you, you know her. The situation I am assuming is still quite fresh making it virtually impossible to switch to 'game mode' on her, particularly because she knows your habits and flipping the script on her would seem incongruent and inauthentic (annoys the shit out of girls).


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