I like to disagree with a lot of the people here in some ways. I do agree you should calibrate your game, but logistics and the factors OUT OF CONTROL (such as if shes in a rush, is just entering a restaurant table etc etc) can interfere. So...despite how you 'calibrate' or microcalibrate or whatever - guys get real. Rejection is part of the game. It happens even with your A-Game, and even if you spit A-game and get the number, you can fuck it up later and spend way too much time on 1 girl.

Not to say you can't approach multiple girls and still have standards. Obviously. It just makes approaching faster just slower to find those girls.

This guy clearly seems to be taking advantage of a girl who seems desperately needy. It's not hard. I've done this with most shy girls. I just have a strong frame and then I just say something like "you're so shy, but I know you're not with someone who knows this about you." while holding her hand. It's dangerously easy.

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I strongly disagree with this.

To be fair about 75% of the guys on here will tell you to Next a girl, and 25% will tell you to keep bulldogging and plowing. Here is why I think the 25% are wrong.

Most people, especially afc's and non-sociopaths, have negative emotions tied to rejection. By plowing and bulldogging the same chick you are logically keeping your chances of fucking her in existence, however there are some important considerations which need to be accounted for:



1. The negative emotional capital invested in continuing to pursue a thin hope
2. The opportunity cost in lost time of not resetting your chances of successfully pursuing and closing with a new girls
3. Trying to make something work that probably isn't copacetic, and thus will often lead to awkward and untoward results down the road, even if you succeed with your plow.

Considering all this I think, in the majority of cases, you are much better nexting an unresponsive, reticent, or problem chick then bulldogging her.

Now if you are accomplished PUA you can do whatever the fuck you like, but again I dont think this is the best advice for noobs.

Just a note here:

I suspect your friend isn't super nice at the start. In addition, the fact that lots of girls seem to like him will give him a level of social proof and preselection.

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AFC turning into a PUA.

when you keep getting rejected you begin to expect rejection . . .

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lmao this sounds like me, I get rejected a lot in the name of experimentation. I also manage to find the hot crazy ones. hahaha

It took me a long time to fully understand this and lately I've been pulling girls like mad. It's not about what you should say but when and how. Take this text I sent today...

"I came so hard looking at your pic. Exploded with marshmallow gooey pleasure"
Would I use that as an opener. NEVER!! I wouldn't send it to 99% of women. Why her? She is open minded, sexual, shows strong interest. It was intended to show her that I am unique, bold and open minded.

Here's another example.

"I'm content with everything that has happened. I wouldn't change a thing except I'd kiss you and hold you longer. I love you and I wish you nothing but the best"
It's cheesy, laying it on thick. AFC. Submissive. So why would I do that? It's because she is moving away and I may never see her again. I'm going to miss her and I'm sure that text will have her remembering who I am for the rest of her life. She is going through a lot in her life and needs all the emotional support she can get.

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Another thing to note is if this guy is pulling pussy like mad doing what he is doing it might be momentum. When he gives girls so much attention, they show their friends and gets them interested. He is getting laid so he won't be throwing that attention around randomly. He is choosing specific targets and focusing on them. So by the time he chooses a new target she may already be interested and eat it up, show all her friends. Then in turn getting other women noticing.

I understand what everybody is saying. Honestly, if I just could fuck one or two girls the whole preselection thing would take effect and it wouldn't be as hard. I just gotta build my game up so I can fuck said girls. So I guess I'm going to take the advice, and just try different shit and see what works. And if it doesn't work, the hell with it.

I think I'm just too self conscious. I care too much about what people think about me...I think too much about fucking something up. I always spit game better when I've had a little alcohol. Hm, maybe I have some kind of anxiety. Shit, I don't know. I've got decent social status, it's just, the girls I want to fuck are fucking guys with higher social status. Don't know how I'm supposed to top that. I guess my question is, how the hell is a lower social status male supposed to fuck a higher social status female in high school? Like, that's pretty much evolutionary predestined not to happen.

Meet some single chicks outside of your high school, and game them. Are you in some Podunk small town?

Yes. Swear to God, that's exactly what I'm in. School has about 500 kids.

how old are you?

17

My highschool had 750 kids, and that's one of the biggest in my state, so I hope to hell your talking about college?
You have better game with alcohol because you're more "yourself", your not trying to put on a perfect face with the girls your just being a guy having fun with the girls and they like a loose guy compared to one with a stick up their ass.
It doesn't matter if your a lower status male, the thing to do is get the higher status, school is a hell of a hard place to start but the sooner the better - first thing you gotta do is stop saying
"im a beta AFC with no life or skills, and no women like me"
because A) that's bullshit, and B) you're just keeping yourself in a rut And it's true, going up to women with the attitude you've had for the last 17+ years of your life hasn't worked before, why do you think it'll work now? You gotta change for the better.

Start going out there and getting messy, make mistakes, and learn
At age 17 unless you do something illegal you have nothing to lose, how many people you know are going to follow you around your entire life telling everyone you meet your mistakes? noone right? go try some stuff out, and you'll be freakin suprised when nothing bad happens, and the girls like you back

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

@charblad

I appreciate the advice man, this seems to be the best I've got here honestly. And no, I'm serious. Small ass town in a southern state. 500 kids. High school.
And in all honesty, I did do something illegal, haha, if you want to read it, you probably don't but:

the-uber-high-school-failure-story-what ... 67458.html

But anyway, my life is a work in progress. It took a lot for me to get back to the social status I'm at now. It just seems like I'm climbing mountains every day to get the status. It's pretty hard, but hey, I'll take your advice and run with it I guess. Gonna just try different shit, if it works, great...if it doesn't, the hell with it. Thanks man.

You should wait until you are an adult before you get romantically involved with a female.