This happened to me as well! A clear decrease of texts and short answers and 1 month later it was game over between us. I also saw more comments on FB from guys on her status updates which i've never seen at the start of our relationship so she was probably playing the market again although she never flaked on me.

Out of my experience i think the way to go is being less available, make her know you have options by maybe having some chicks post on your face-book wall.

It seems your no longer a challenge to her and she got pretty bored and is probably looking for a new thrill in her life. By decreasing texts and affection it will be a lot easier for her to break-up when times comes. What i did in my situation was also cutting of all emotion for her because i think deep down you know this will not work out in the end.

Become the guy again that you were in the beginning of the relationship, that's who she felt in love with.

Looking back at my scenario i want you to take the advice to end it yourself when things are still "ok" instead of 1 month later when it's just a unhealthy relationship.

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UPDATE

Ok, so I met her tonight and was my normal fun self. She was in surprisingly good form too.

I was waiting for the right time to bring up my concerns when she tried to send a text in front of me. It wouldn't send for a long time and while we sat there a few texts came through but they where a few hours late.

I then said "yea I wondered wether you where getting a few of my messages and I didn't want you to think I was being a jerk"

She then said that when her phone played up she thought that people including me were ignoring her.


All in all I left feeling a whole lot better as I think it was a misunderstanding. This PUA stuff has helped me through this as previously I would of turned total afc with this.


I'll still be keeping an eye out for warning signs though

Okay Dave, here's my take on your situation.

You're over analyzing things. This is a trap. You're into intrusive thinking mode. You're riding the emotional roller coaster ride instead of you giving her the emotional roller coaster ride that her body craves.

Focus on new bedroom techniques for you to manage this situation well. A woman will not just leave you for some other guy once she knows that aside from all of your other qualities, you're the best lover she's ever had.

You'll only mismanage your relationship when you over analyze things to much. Focus instead on boosting up her dopamine and oxytocin levels.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Agreed. Your relationship sounds like it's falling apart, and you're trying to salvage it by jumpstarting her thumbs.

I say you withdraw your texting, since she's doing nothing to merit responses back. The next time she texts asking what you're doing, don't answer. Wait for her to call. If it's that important she will.

Meantime, go have a blast doing whatever the hell you want, provided it isn't cheating. Also, don't tell her you're deliberately doing this.

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Do by all means NOT wait for her to call. Do not supplicate either but in a relationship you as a man should do your part to. So you lead her. E.g. By calling to ask how her day was. Btw glad to hear it was just a simple phone failure. Such things do happen.