Judging by the responses on here, it appears there's some really sensitive people on here. I guess past experience with jerks bullying them or whatever makes them hate doing what they did to women. The OP is just doing what many guys do that are good with women. No need to criticize him for it.

Actually, I think anyone getting their panties in a wad for calling the OP out are the sensitive ones...

Take out the feelings when we're dealing dude-to-dude. We attack the problem. If the OP is being a dick, and simply wants to be - that's on him. But don't get pissy when others call him out for it.

RR

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Friend this is the definition of the jerk that we guys have for. but for the wome the ral jerk is somebody who tries to be good to her ( and she trie to find some bad elements - so she has). After the sex i too dont feel any intimcy and attraction . We really have to work on this - more experience and more women. Try to read How to become an alpha male - John Alexander. Its not exaclty a tecnhigue book but it has many of your current questions answered. Im sure about this. Good luck with your life.

Judging by your opinion that 'treating women like shit after sex' is equivalent to being good with women makes you appear ignorant.

Also, when presenting a problem on a forum and trying to get help - getting criticized for what's causing the problem is a part of the process.

Sure, some people have come off as too harsh, but the general idea remains behind each of those replies and it's a matter of extracting the message behind the critics rather than looking at what is considered 'insulting' or not.

It's up to the OP to decide how to handle this information.

I'm going to be honest here, you've already said that she gets treated before like this by guys. It's been said here once and it'll be said again, low quality females attract low quality men. No emotion at all but it sounds to me that you've got the complex that most of the bipolar girls have with the ""if a girl wants me she must be trash." It sounds to me like you've got some real fucked up inner game, your not a jerk just an insecure little boy who probably isn't able to have normal relationships with girls.

If I was in your position I would step back and try to find some confidence rather than being insecure and needing to lash out on people who give you affection.

P.S. I'm not emotional and if you treated one of my girlfriends like that I'd probably kick your head in.

Women who are consistently treated like that, want to be treated it like. If she's been through this in the past, you can bet that something or another draws her to relationships where it happens.

If power is too lopsided in a relationship, that's just the natural course it takes. I've seen both girls and guys do some seriously fucked up things either for revenge or out of pure apathy because their partners were eating out of their hands.

The negativity associated with this relationships is bad karma. I don't mean that in a mystical way, just that it tends to stick with you and your mindset. As a general rule, when you find yourself in a poisonous relationship, cut it off entirely.

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Look my fellow men on here i think i have already stated the fact that im a jerk, telling me over and over that i am isn't really helping me become a better person towards women.

Here is my problem, i have a hard feeling emotions towards other people, sometimes i really dont care about others feelings, most of the time the women i date. After sex all attraction i have for her i lose it to the point i cant even look at her. Im trying to change that, need suggestion on things i can do, or books i can read, anything that can help me get better will help. I'm 18, in high school.

PS: if there's anybody on this forum whose been in this type of situation before feel free to reply away on how you change but still have major success with women without have to be a jerk, cause nowadays it seems like that's to only type of guys women are attracted to.[/quote]

18?

Yeah, I'm out.

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