And a little update. E-mail response from me evidently a fail.

Advice from Rodeo and jcombs is weighing heavily on me. What is a non-AFC way to back-off or knock this on the head?

What did you email her? (I just skim read the post)

The food that you were talking about (cream bun????) Can be used as a day 2 tool

"I'll tell you what, I'll take you to ****** so you can experience the delicious ****** BUT Your paying, (Day YOUR free, don't ask when she is free)"

That may well be totally wrong but That's why i'm not a PUA :L

With what Jcombs said, It depends on what you want, if you want her as your girlfriend, then there shouldn't be MUCH of a problem, but if you just want to Fuck her and dump her, It'll be a problem.

To back off just friend zone her like women do to some men.

OR

You could quit your job straight away, then you don't have to see her again

P.S DO NOT quit you job

Charl - No Problem

My e-mail back was:

And so very brave to tease someone of your stature! "


Ho hum! I'm all a dither and not at all sure which way I want to go! Well, at least life is interesting right now!

What was her response?

If a girl takes offence to a joke of mine I couldn't give a shit, in fact it'd be a turn off for me and I wouldn't reply and let her come back to me. Don't be insulting but picking on her size is nothing she should be offended by. If she is, find more confident girls otherwise you'll be wondering if you can say this or say that without offending them.

Wigster, I wish you well.

You truly don't need the headache.

I don't have anything as to what to do. I don't email chicks in the office, I don't email negs, and I don't have the background in this situation, or the inclination to really think about it, to help.

Seriously, I wish you all the best - I hope ALL of this blows over calmly.

RR

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Thanks RR.

Friday's office do came and went. On approaching the bar for the first round (a rather nice mild ale for me) my thoughts could have been summarised as 'sod it'. Got myself nicely drunk (not insensible) and just had a good time.

Office girl and I did spend a pleasant time chatting at one point and I am sure we shall be settling into the friendzone presently.

I am feeling very noble, of course! But more seriously, can I thank all of you guys for all of the advice rendered. Special thanks to Rodeo for the hardheaded talk. You were always right, Rodeo - I wanted you to be wrong, of course.

Odd thing though, looking back on my iPhone I have a picture of the boss's PA playing with her hair (turning it into a moustache) holding the pose for me to snap and thinking about it now there were quite a few of those IOI's. I wasn't paying enough attention!

Well, she is very good looking (HB9, maybe even higher if you like them on the slightly curvy side) but I am definitely not going there!

LOL..... Wigster.... Good on you, brother.


But... like I said... if you can fuck a chick who has more to lose than you do - fuck her! I just caution about doing it at work.

Props to you man.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.