Tell her exactly what happened be direct don't lie. If she can see your being direct and honest that in itself shows confidence. Most guys would make up a story. So say something like "hey wat up xxxx i wanted to meet you this week but do to my inability to get out of the hospital bed i'll have to make you wait until xxx" just keep it light and smooth. Remember your true goal is to learn how to be direct and express exactly what's on your mind which is an alpha male.

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Great post Charblad.

Never leave reason for doubt. "You should" "I'm going to" I'm fixing to"... it's all filler. It's like telling a thick "I think I'm going to do that...." NO! Tell her you're GOING to do that. You don't want her to subconsciencely think "this guy isn't sure - he's non-decisive".

Always be succinct, direct and remove ANY superflous words from your dialogue.

RR

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you should be more careful how you say this. Most noobies read this as "tell the girl "hey wanna fuck"" which will get you only the lowest class of women, or worse they'll read "be yourself" which hasn't worked for over 18 yrs of their life. His example is fine he just didn't explain what being direct really means.
It has more to do with confidence than words. Youre "directly" telling her to hang out, or "directly" telling her your sick. There is no beating around the bush (nervous trait) like "well. Umm. I was Gunna hang out with u but. Umm I think I'm sick" when u could say what amazing art said and be yet again, 'direct'

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Ok guys, I gave her a call but she didn't pick up? Idk why? What should I do now. I should hv left her a voice message but I didn't. I don't want to call her like everyday waiting for her to pick up, so I guess I just gotta' wait for her to call me?

I called around 5:00, maybe she was busy with work or something idk? It's kind of odd that she would try n dodge me, because when I talked to her we really got on well, I made her laugh, etc. So it wasn't like an awkward experience. But throughout this whole thing I honestly learned a lot.

SO THIS IS WHAT I FIGURED: I hv two options, wait for her to call me back or try and see her at her work when I'm over my cold and try and set something else there. Now is there like a big Pua problem with letting a week go by until you see her again and all that. I mean I don't think she's a pua, so I don't see any harm in it. Let me know.

You seem like you need to know more about gaming than just the help we can give you on this thread, try reading up on some things about pua (kino, day2's, text game, ect.) because you need more knowledge about what to do.

Other than that, yes, she has something called "a life" and may not pick up every single time you call her; you're reaction is what tipped me off to your need of more understanding. It's a very desperate reaction with little to no understanding of how women work - this isn't to be rude but i'm trying to help you; read up on some gaming books and watch a few pua videos

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