Friends with benefits with an ex?



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:23 am 
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Hooking up with her may lead for her to believe she has a second chance with you. Which leads me to the emotional part. You where with her for 6 months, in that time at least some emotion was there, and hooking up with her can very well bring those emotions back and pretty soon either one of you want a relationship with the other.
This is true, but ppl have to look out for themselves and make their own decisions. U cant worry about how her actions will affect her emotionally. If she decides to hook up with u thats on her. If she gets emotionally attached and wants more even though u said there was nothing more than thats her fault. So just be honest with her.
I agree. I am just just to be aware of unfavorable outcomes, as your behavior/actions effects others good or bad.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 28, 2012 9:41 pm 
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Just a quick update here. I sent her a birthday message earlier saying " happy Birthdayy!! :D x " and half hour later she replied " thanks x" so im not sure how to take that reply, i havent replied back to that yet and i dont think i'll bother, to me it sound like shes saying thanks but fuck off lol

i havent contacted her for about 2 months and im kinda seeing someone else SPAM and there are picture of me and this new girl on my facebook, and im pretty sure she would of seen them. i really want sex with her again but unless she contacts me first im not going to chase her for it, so should i just forget about it and move on?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 28, 2012 11:07 pm 
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Yes, she is saying "thanks but fuck off."

NEVER get with an ex. DONT DO IT. BREAK UPS ARE FINAL.

Sometimes FWB with an ex works out. Sometimes unprotected sex works out too. That does not mean you should go around doing it.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 28, 2012 11:21 pm 
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Yeah thats what i thought. she's obv not interested in ever really talking to me again she even deleted me of her bbm. i dont know why she wouldnt want sex with me again because it was so good and she definately finds me attractive. plus she has met up with her ex's before for sex her friend told me. i treated her so good so she has no reason to hate me at all.

but as you say even though the sex was amazing with her i just need to forget it and move on now cus its just not a good idea to keep pursuing her for sex unless she initiates it. so this is kind of closure for me now and dont think i'll ever contact her again.


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