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That, I have yet to do..and ironically never tried for some reason...guess I was always just too in the moment to think with that head lmao BUT.....I do believe its possible, with hardcore focus and intention, to make a girl reach orgasm without touching her the ways you normally would to arouse her to that point....I'll try it out and let you know. I'll stop masturbating for 2 weeks starting in about...4 minutes. If shit doesn't pick up by then, I'm calling it quits lol
I believe anything is possible dude.. You can trip some chicks the fuck out with that lol

But what i've learned is to never put a time limit on how long your going to stop doing something. It doesn't work.. For example, if you quit for 2 weeks there will be no change but I bet you my muppets autographed sock things will pick up after those 2 weeks you gave yourself.

When I quit, I sent out the energy that im done with this for good.. And it didn't take but a few days before something happened for me. Its about the energy and force of the decision and not the decision itself. I hope that makes sense.

Do some research and find some real deep rooted reason for stopping. Don't just do it because I said it got ME some ass.

When you make positive decisions, you get positive outcomes.

And what I read also is, when you ejaculate you lose some testosterone, however when you have sex with a women, the exchange of fluids gives you a chemical from the female system that balances you out. I also believe the chemical you get from females raises others attraction for you.

You raised good points..and its not that I'm giving myself a time limit. I've been busting my ass trying to get a job..so I'll stop masturbating and focus on getting hired at one of the many places I've applied at recently lol I know once I get a steady job, all else will be more easily attained..Can't wait to have the extra cash to go out and do shit, and meet new people...and maybe I can even make it into a story to tell them... "Oh Motown! how did you become so cool?!"......."Well babe...I hit rock bottom, quit smoking, and stopped masturbating, and here we are!!"

Even if its true, that is sure to generate some laughs because no one expects to hear any type of success story beginning with "I stopped masturbating" haha
Hell yeaa... I'd tell that story every where i go lol

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Yo but what about fucking a girl? Doesn't that shit release the same chemicals?

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Yo but what about fucking a girl? Doesn't that shit release the same chemicals?


You didn't read all the post, I touched on that.. And no, the exchange of fluids give you something from the female system to balance you out. That along with a bunch of other things that separate it.. If it interest you, do some research on it bro

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Yo but what about fucking a girl? Doesn't that shit release the same chemicals?


You didn't read all the post, I touched on that.. And no, the exchange of fluids give you something from the female system to balance you out. That along with a bunch of other things that separate it.. If it interest you, do some research on it bro
Ah yeah ur right man. it's just late over here and im lazy as fuck to read the rest lol. but yeah man, must be the pheromones and shit. actually they feel one thing when you approach them just cuz they're hot, and another when you have an actual erection.

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This might sound stupid but by fluid exchange you mean just saliva? or without rubbers?


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I guess im kinda skeptical about all the "No wank - more girls" thing.

Cause the only thing that really happens is your testosterone level rising, you become more tense, more aggressive, more horny. And it might work on some pheromone level or something.
But I think it just makes you more persistent, focused on the goal of getting laid.

And maybe somebody might explain, what is the thing "that you gain from the female system?"

IMHO You will not become less attractive after blowing your load. Unless you become less motivated to go out and meet women.

But on the other hand if abstinence is something that keeps you motivated, then why not :)
:D I might try it to, maybe that way I'll finally do something useful!

Anyway, good luck


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Pretty interesting, gonna give this no masturbation a go. I don't think I've ever gone a week without wanking lol, even when I was having sex every day.


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Guy go do your own personal research.. Don't just take my word for it.

Maybe you guys could name the positives to masturbating?

The only one I see is the temporary rush from the orgasm

and I can make a list of about 10-15 negatives lol

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I've seen a lot of doctors recommending masturbation, in fact most of what I hear advocates doing it instead of not doing it. Did a quick google and came up with lots of sites listing the benefits. Here's one: http://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv ... ation?open


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So I had read and article a few months back about masturbation, It stated that when you masturbate your brain releases these chemical(Can't remember the name) that make women subconsciously less attracted to you. I did a ton of extra research and came to the conclusion that I was never going to masturbate again. It make me feel weak, lethargic, and not confident anyway.

Shortly after I stopped, I began meditation regularly, just keeping my brain alert and as sharp as possible.. I picked up on my exercise and began to eat better..

Since two weeks ago, I had 4 girls that were calling me every night and that I was having sex with regularly. Just two nights ago, I had one of the girls over my place real late.. She didn't tell me until she had came over that she was on her period and that it was really heavy.. Long story short that meant I wasn't getting any sex. I was horny as hell. The blow job just didn't help, after a few hours she left and I was still feeling the same. I called each one of the other chicks but im guessing they were all sleep...

I'm horny so im like fuck it... www dot porn hub dot com... I gave myself two good schwackings and went to bed. Woke up feeling like a tired lifeless loser. I hated the feeling and grew angry with myself for even doing it in the first place. Like an idiot I felt them temptation to do it again, and I gave into it once more.. Felt like banging my head into a wall..

From that point on, the 4 chicks I was talking to, that were calling me with consistency, and asking me if they could come over constantly, have not called me or texted me.. I texted a few of them but the conversations were just unusually boring. I just couldn't text how I used to. They just seemed to lose all interest.

I'm writing this to say, masturbation killed my game. Once I stopped I was in and out of girls like dirty underwear. From the moment I gave into it again, the girls I had already just didn't want me anymore..

So now i'm back at ground zero, I have to work my way back up to where I was..

Here goes nothing :)

I'm interested in hearing if anyone has had any similar experiences or any thoughts you may have.

Thanks for reading

This is the most ignorant post ever, no often fuze... there is NO CORRELATION between masturbation and pick up, that makes no sense...


some dudes(skills) masturbate and get hornier..
some dudes masturbate and they lose sex drive
some dudes masturbate and does not make a different(skills again)


is all in your head, another limiting belief... there is NO CORRELATION what soever in you masturbating and losing the 4 girls, but i have a theory of what really happened, you with your stupid ass obsession of being horny and no masturbating started harassing, and calling the 4 girls and acting needy in order for them to come to your crip that is why you probably lost them... But that is my guess...The only masturbation you should avoid is the MENTAL masturbation of the community... omg! out!

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lol it was 3 am in the morning skills and I only called once..

Thats still no explanation as to why all four of them had the same reaction lol ..

Like it said, its probably all in my head, but you can go see the chemical scientific evidence to support a lot of what im saying.. Go look it up :)

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Seems like placebo. I know many people argue for this but I just dont buy it biologically, pheromones and stuff are still highly controversial in humans and I have never heard anything about a substance released that makes girls less interested in you.

Psychologically though, of course you are less "on" because you just did your thing. That can be bad or good, if you are a sexcrazed freak who just humps anything that moves, it may be a good thing (something about Mary) but if you are a fairly normal guy, maybe it gives you some motivation if you resist the urge.

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Very informative thread, I stopped about 5-7 days ago (hipster Suriyel lol) and have notice a difference. Idk if it's in my head but I feel like HBs want to talk to me more.

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Seems like placebo. I know many people argue for this but I just dont buy it biologically, pheromones and stuff are still highly controversial in humans and I have never heard anything about a substance released that makes girls less interested in you.

Psychologically though, of course you are less "on" because you just did your thing. That can be bad or good, if you are a sexcrazed freak who just humps anything that moves, it may be a good thing (something about Mary) but if you are a fairly normal guy, maybe it gives you some motivation if you resist the urge.
Agreed, the mind is a powerful thing. If you really believe that doing something or not doing something affects your game, then your confidence will mirror that. Only thing I know with any real scientific background (and fuck, this was an episode of MANswers) was that watching porn before going out could be beneficial in that you produce "arousal sweat" which contains natural pheromones. But hell, even pheromones are a half-assed science in my opinion.

Just game, practice, commit to it, and stop blaming random things on your failures. You had a dry spell, Fuze, that's all.


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