now I spoke with a girl who said I should wait for her to text me. She said if I text it will just push her away further and if she does not text she was not that interested to being with, does any of you agree with this approach??
cheers

That's bizarre.

Do you come from an English speaking background, perhaps your translation was a little off? That situation doesn't make much sense.

_________________
"Stay hungry, stay healthy, be a gentleman, believe strongly in yourself and go beyond limitations.” - Arnold Schwarzenegger

well she is saying cause the girl did not like me kissing her on the first date then she felt in the club i was watching her its like i was sufucating her, if i text her it will just push her away further. She said if this girl actully likes me she with throw me a text sometime soon, i just wondered if you think its better to show i dont care and wait for the girl to text me

It can go either way. If you both are playing that game, waiting for each other to start the communication, no ones going to text anyone first and your connection will be lost... Then she will be gone.

If she thinks that about you then the only thing that's going to help is if you show her your not like that. Only way your going to show her this is by hanging out with her in person... So text her and set something up. If she blows you off and doesn't reschedule then you have your answer.

Sometimes is good to listen to a women... but most of the times they have no clue what they want.

I would wait a couple of days to give her some space to think and then call her.

But... You don't want to be seen by her as some puppy dog that is going to obey all her rules. She is trying to 'handle' the situation and you don't want that, so call her when you contact her don't text.

_________________
"Stay hungry, stay healthy, be a gentleman, believe strongly in yourself and go beyond limitations.” - Arnold Schwarzenegger