welcome to reality, girls are just guys with vaginas, just fucking embrace it already, girls get horny, girls love sex, and hotties learn about abundance much earlier then most guys because they get approached rather then having to approach, (the guys that learn about abundance are the most confident), you see, find someone you like, try to fuck them, it is a yes or a no, if it is a no, who gives a shit there will be someone you can find every single day if you look, who is attractive enough to approach and take a shot with, the process repeats, eventually you can refine your process to be more efficent, and by default you will gradually shape greater results from previous experiences and it all starts to lose its importance and you realize we are all human and people hookup with people, there is no magical anything you have to do besides make it happen, this was just a good example of you having an opportunity that you failed to make happen, the next guy over (she did the approach and got the no *this is girl style they are more indirect about shit*, so she got rejected, no biggie, onto the next guy), next guy made it happen and she got what she wanted, you can learn a lot from what happened