Mhm so what if he's going to mess up? If he will think like that it will definitely happen...
Last time I checked PUA was about learning from fails and don't give a shit about it just do it and think learn from mistakes.
So lie!

So if she asks, I should lie and say a random number? Not sure what to expect from a first time, prematurely cum, awkward positions, what to say, etc. Wouldn't actual sex make you cum FASTER than masturbating? Pornstars can go for like an hour and have 6+ inch dicks. If SHE watches porn, she'll expect a lot from me.

On second thought...Just say 3 girls, not 11. That way, if you're bad, it wont seem as strange.

Sex is like zen though, or fishing. The more you try and analyze it, the more you'll fail at it. You know how to have sex, it's programmed into your DNA from birth man. Just do what you feel like doing, don't worry about what she thinks.

Naked ladies feel nice so grab her all over and enjoy yourself, and she will too.

Thing is, why do ladies only seem to be able to enjoy getting physical with a guy if he is a cool, confident, charismatic, smooth-talking, sporty, tall alpha male? Surely as long as a guy looks good facially and has a decent body, sex & groping feel exactly the same for a girl, regardless of how 'alpha' & cocky a guy is. :S

Did she ask? I've had a guy sitting on my bed once, we were about to have sex. He was appearantly nervous but still dressed (I think this is important) and he said he was still a virgin. He wasn't shy about it, just like Fuze said, didn't have a worthy chance yet.
It was quite good actually as he had read into pleasing a girl, he knew female anatomy. Having sex with a lot of women does not make you good at it (having a lot of sex with few women probably makes you better), being open to learn about sex does.
But I think telling when you are not getting it up or after you instantly came is not as good as being honest about it in a neutral situation.

Who was it who said that when a girl asks them how many girls they've had sex with, the answer was:
*look her in the eyes. Serious face*
"None. I'm still a virgin"
*pause as her guilt kicks in*
"It's because I'm ashamed of my tiny penis. In fact, it's so small that you wouldn't even feel it."
*pause*
*break a smile*

Unless you're really brave, I'm not suggesting that you actually use that though!

I bluffed my first time... And I did a half decent job. Better than even some attempts recently when I was drunk lol

Itd be pretty manly to own up to being a virgin then still go through with the sex. Props If you do it.

I dont see why the question or topic would ever come up before sex unless you seem shit scared nervous... Just relax. Every dudes been in your position once.

The question has never come up for me in my life... Once after sex I was asked if I was a 'playboy' but thats it...

If it did come up its one of those questions I would treat as stupid, so I would give it a stupid answer... 729! ... continue kissing... touching.... sex!

stop worrying. for your sake just do it! get it over with so you can stop being so worried about sex and start actually enjoying it.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

First time i did it she didn't ask, i didn't tell her. Just pretended like i was experienced (don't brag), acted with confidence and like i knew what i was doing (even if i didn't). I remembered all of the porn i watched and tried to simulate some of that stuff, nothing fancy though.

If she would have asked how many women i've had sex with prior i would have said something like "Not that many, i'm all about quality over quantity" and would have changed the subject, wouldn't have given a specific number. Leaves some room for mistery. Plus it would have made her feel good about herself, as she's lucky enough to have made it in my pants.

My 2c.

Look, if you really must tell a girl you're a virgin, at least wait until after you've shagged her, because if in the worst case scenario she finds your virginity pathetic and a big turn-off, at least you've had her pussy and lost your v-card! She can hardly go back in time and undo the sex haha.

I dont see why?

I use exacctly what Fuze told ,

Every girl who ask me how many girls I bang, I would say none, and they would be stupid the fact I was a virgin because How confident I was about them. Some would just say it a way of getting in to them pants. But I would just smile

Told them it was by choice and I hadnt found anyone special and made girls, be more open to me adn open alot of doors. Being a virgin has nothing wrong.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Well it's alright for you, since you talk like you can get any girl, but I figure why would one take the risk if one actually was a desperate virgin? Get the pussy first, and then ask questions later. Would a homeless tramp procrastinate and bring up useless comments if he were suddenly offered a million pounds? No, he'd take the money and run, because he can't afford to fuck around.

Maybe because I dont care what other think about me.

Sometimes we give too much importance to things it doesnt matter. Be happy thats my goal

One time this guy who is a friend of mine starts amoging me with a girl, telling me that he bang more girls than me, and starts counting them in front of me and then the girl. I just smile and told him yeah you are much more ladies than me, and continue my conversation , while he just sat there feeling stupid. to be honest he just wanted to feel good by comparing our number of girls. Cant he alone be happy with his number but no he has to compare them with me too feel good about himself.

This virgin thing and other silly bussiness that society gaves too much importance and sometimes measure how much a person are is just plain stupid, you need to start respecting your self and being confortable in your shoes.

trust me telling girls you are virgin with a nice mindset wont do much harm.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Yeah that's all well and good for you, but my point is, for someone who's desperate to lose their actual virginity, it would be foolish to say anything which carried a risk of the girl changing her mind at the last minute. There may be some girls who would be turned off by a guy being a virgin, so admitting you're a virgin is risky. Why would a desperate virgin take that risk, when for all he knows that could be the last opportunity he ever gets in his life to have sex with an attractive non-prostitute girl? To paraphrase Eminem, if you had one shot, one opportunity, to seize everything you ever wanted, would you capture it, or just let it slip, by risking the girl bailing by telling her you're a virgin?

I'll have respect for myself and be comfortable in my shoes when there is an attractive girl(s) voluntarily snogging, shagging & loving me.

For the love of God, someone ban danthedan.