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So there is a hot cougar at work who makes obscenely sexual comments to me, but has 3 kids and is married (husband is an alcoholic d bag) and is nearly double my age.
She says that girls in the store all want to ride my pole (and that shes only human to bring this to my attention), and has said i could dirty her up, i think about pussy all the time, and that I'm the biggest ho (meaning i fuck alot of bitches) in the place (to this i laughed while giving a half ass no in sarcasm).
But the thing is, when i have said what im doing on the weekend, ect she never made the move to get my number or hang out. At one point awhile in I tried grabbing her number but she said that she was married, and that was cute though.
These comments are continuing, and her husband is going overseas for the military soon she told me today. She might love attention, but she doesnt do this to as much of an extent with anyone else in the store.
She has done some kino with me, and i reciprocated, but since we are at work I have to be careful who sees.
How the hell can I bed this broad! I have several women at work lusting over me together, so i am in a fortunate situation, and she knows this.
Should I make a comment about how shes gonna have the house to herself all these months, and see if she tries to make a move?
Her emotional and physical needs are not being met, she is married in name only, for the kids, finances etc... She wants you to fuck her, 3 things you have to display: you are discreet, do this by telling her can you keep a secret? hb, yes, are you sure if i tell you something you have the ability to keep it to yourself and not gossip, cause i hate people that gossip, when someone tells me something is between me and them, if i want to share it with someone else i first ask for approval to see if is ok. Second, she wants to know that you are not a clinger, bring a topic like i hate girls that are clingy and do not get the point, or hints, or some shit like that, 3rd she does not want to feel you just used her, so say something i date and i fuck a lot, but i do not fuck for fucking, i need to have some type of friendship and get along with a girl there has to be some type of connection... Whatever you do, do not fuck her at her place, or your place, and do not fuck her more than 3 times.. Finally, i would not fuck a girl i work with...
I agree 100% with what skills wrote (especially sex with married co-workers)
I would also like to add, if you are seeking some sort of sexual gratification with this women and do not mind messing with a married women, I suggest you play a game.
Just get a blow job, women(especially married) are less likely to tell other people if the go down on a guy only, It seems less classy and less erotic then sex.
I found the best way to see if a woman is just flirting or is actually down for getting down, is to tell her you had a fantasy about her.
When you mention it, do it while you are already flirting. I usually would open with " I gotta tell ya something, but you gotta promise not to laugh ok" ( she will be immediately intrigued) you can milk it for a bit and play shy and hesitate to tell her, then when she is intrigued enough make up a fantasy, that involves just you and her. like her meeting you somewhere in a near by parking lot, and blowing you in the car. etc etc. (Just remember, the more specific and detailed the fantasy you tell her, the better it will work) If she response well to it, you can then even say that you have already pleased yourself thinking about her doing it.
9/10 women will take this as a compliment and consider doing it or at least be complimented enough to politely decline ( especially if their is already sexual chemistry and tension built) Any woman loves to think they are a mans fantasy ( even if it is just made up for sexual gain)
The great thing about it is that it is discreet, you lessen the odds of her telling her husband ( oral sex seems so much dirtier) And they eventually feel some sort of shame and hold no resentment towards you but only towards herself. ( she will not want it out in the open so she will stay compatible with you in the work environment)
Personally though, I would advise against any sexual contact with co-workers.
There is a good chance that all these women are just competing for your attention and wish to feed their own ego's ( women in groups are very catty and competitive)
If you must have sex with her, I suggest you listen to what skills said, to the letter. He is spot on. ( the fantasy bit is also a great opener for sex).
CHAT