considering this statement and your previous post it doesn't seem like your really ready to be on this website to be honest. I'm sorry to seem like an asshole, but your statements are beyond the pale of what can be dealt with in this forum. When your ready to deal with the reality of PUA you should relog.

Nothing wrong with being clean, or not wanting to get a case of herpes.

It's kind of a misconception that promiscuous people have STDs. It's possible to have many partners and not have one if you always use protection and get you and your partner checked every now and then.

I agree with one previous poster that having a judgmental attitude when it comes to women having many partners is counter-productive.

You're on a PUA forum, which means you probably want to have sex with as many girls as possible -- why would you allow yourself that right while at the same time denying women that? You can sleep with 20 women but a girl can't sleep with 20 guys?

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I'm not one to bang the first thing with tits and a pussy. I like to have a standard, and it's just not as attractive to me, knowing that she has had more partners than old how she is. I didn't say it was alright for a dude to have many partners, and a girl can't.

Having had many partners also doesn't indicate a person has low standards. An HB7+ with a nice personality easily attracts high quality men wherever she goes. Couple that with a strong sex drive and, by age 21 it's not that uncommon for her to have had somewhere around 10 to 15 sex partners. (I know your original question was less of a question and more of a complaint, but this is the reason why HB7s+ have had much more sex partners than you.)

Why are you looking up PUA techniques if it's not to attract HBs (I wasn't saying ugly girls) whenever you can? You want to be good at seducing women just so you can stop once you're reached a certain number count? What happens when you've seduced more than 10 women? You're telling me you're going to stop because it's "dirty" and "unattractive"?

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I have to put my two cents in here, as this is completely false. I am a 23 year old guy who attended university just last year and lived on campus, and have only been with a few (CLEAN) women. While PUA is to get with a ton of women, why not make em CLEAN women? Yes, hot chicks have more sex then average chicks because of the social factor. But to find a broad with 10 to 15 partners at 21 is fucking gross. The sluttiest girl I know (23 as well, drug user, VERY VERY promiscuous) has been with 16 or 17 men, and she is a huge exception at this age. Who the hell wants to bang a chick when that many dicks have rubbed up on her?

What this guy is experiencing is natural. All my buddies (good guys, don't drink too too much, no drugs, educated, moral standards in these type of things, dont cheat) find it gross the more guys a women has been with.

Its evolutionary. In the stone age, what was the best way to avoid disease? To avoid overly promiscuous women. We find out how many men she has been with through social interaction, and as men we find it "gross" or a turn off when that number is too high because it is a defense mechanism against disease.

Wow, and to find a guy who's slept with 10 to 15 women at age 21 is not supposed to be gross? Awesome double-standard you have.

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Dude you can be the as big a pedantic priggish moral oral pederast as much as you like, but don't pretend you are the avatar of moral judgement and pass off your overly subjective opinion as objective fact. Especially considering your age and experience level

1. There have been studies that say the average woman in her lifetime sleeps with 5 guys. 10-15 is high for a 60 year old, nevermind a 21 year old.

2. I know a ton of people with this phenomenon (grossed out by promiscuous women), and its pretty common in the media as well.

The double standard thing (men can fuck as many chicks as they want, but women can't) stems back to the fact that it is a primal instinct for men to spread their seed (billions upon trillions of sperm) to as many possible fields as possible, while women, the holders of only one seed at any given time, are supposed to look for a special man to be the father of their child. I don't believe myself that having more then one partner for a woman is a bad thing, but the stakes are surely higher for them (chance of pregnancy).

Another factor here that people fail to recognize is the physical aspect of sex. You have to realize that the male sex organ is an exterior organ, whereas the vagina is a canal with walls. As men we put something INTO something, which to many of us is disgusting if tons of other male's organs have been there before (afterall, we are guys, competitive by nature, and tons of us are grossed out by touching other men's genitals)

Even IF the vagina is (scientifically) awesome at flushing itself out.

And I'm not even mentioning the whole disease factor here. The more promiscuous a woman is, the more likely the chances are she will contract a disease, so why would female promiscuity NOT be a neutral to negative factor in the male mind?

Alot of this stuff is still theory, as human attractiveness is a complex subject, of course. My age/ experience level has nothing to do with this.

For every person you know who thinks a promiscuous woman is "gross" I know five people who think it's normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

These sorts of people (people who are grossed out about sexually confident women) are becoming rarer as societal views of women and sexuality are changing. It is a very conservative and judgmental viewpoint and it has no place in modern society.

How would you feel if a woman found you "gross" and looked down on you for having an active sex life?

You can't want to be a master seducer and at the same time judge women for being the exact same thing. Hypocrisy at its worst.

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28, female, using PUA techniques in my daily life just like any guy out there who wants to attract better mates

The thing is, I identify myself as a liberal! I do not come from a conservative family, I'm not religious either. This is primal. Read the rest of the post.


This discussion reminds me of one I was having the other day with a buddy. He said why are feminists so adamant about equal wages Lionheart? I said I don't know man, because frankly one of the ways human males impress females from a scientific perspective is through status, and by doing so, they are removing from us one way of securing a mate.

Some of these may be ugly truths, but they are human nature.

I know where these ideas stem from. I had them myself a long time ago. However, many people get over this hang-up with the more life experience they gain and the more open-minded they become.

If we control for the possibility of disease (if the woman has been tested and is found to be negative for everything) and if the only thing that bothers you is the fact that she's slept with many men, well, that's something to think about.

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I dont think they WANT to get over it though. I think that they are forced to because their age range becomes more experienced and less experienced people are harder and harder to come by.

I'm sure 50 years ago people could not accept the possibility of their wives not being virgins before marriage. But now it's common place to not be a virgin when you marry. Same thing goes with the idea of promiscuous women. People might be resistance to change at first, but in the end equality and fairness prevails.

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Roast pork bun girl, please don't quote things under my name that I didn't write (see supra ": know a ton of people with this phenomenon (grossed out by promiscuous women), and its pretty common in the media as well.")

I don't want to be associated with someones elses foolish opinion,.