Does it matter either way whether it is an LJBF or shit test or rejection at this point? No. It has already passed. Basically, dogging the guy about it is a waste of time. Also, the original post made it sound like he has one-itis for the girl, which he should avoid at all cost.

My point is, learn from the experience, figure out what you can do next time to avoid this from happening again in the future, and try to salvage what you can without investing too much time and energy into it. Because, there are tons of other girls out there and you don't want to fixate on just one.

Sounds like you didn't show the girl you have a dick. Good convo? Got her laughing? Man none of that matters. Try a more man to woman approach and escalate like crazy. Don't do pinky swears, friend hugs, or any of that shit. Just get close, hug her with your hands around her waist, bring your hands down to her ass, squeeze and pull up a bit, breathe down her neck.

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This is great advice. Great convo and laughter usually means that she wants you to start initiating kino. Don't forget that women want to be touched, just so long as she doesn't think you are a creep. If you have good convo and laughter, that usually means she doesn't think you are a creep. The question she has is whether you are man enough to initiate kino. So, be a man, and start kinoing.

Alright thanks guys. I guess I was thinking she was shy and didnt think i was gonna ask for her # and wanted an excuse to contact me. I havnt had much experience on handling or recognizing shit test, so ill work on that. I'll tell u guys how it if your interested

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Yeah do, reply to this thread. When you feel excited and hungry for shit tests that's when you know you're making progress. Also, you can shit test her aswell.

For example, I'm gaming this one girl at the moment. I'm a selective guy and only go for classy girls. I proposed to her in a text that we should bang in the toilets of a pub/cinema/wherever and she replied saying she doesn't do that because she is classy. I then qualified her a little for saying that. "Good girl, I only go for classy girls, I thought you were one. I was right."

The goal here was to let her know I'm selective, not to get her to bang in the toilets. If I wanted to bang in the toilets I would approach it a completely different way.

You should have man'd up and told her you were interested in fucking her not her friend.

I don't know how your going to play this facebook game . To me it's going to come off like this:

You: "Hi I tried to holla at your friend she rejected me and said you might be interested"

At this point you need to the have the friend who rejected you introduce you personally to the new girl

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DHV in every way possible. Show no interest in her for a while. Keep baiting her periodically and calibrate her sexual interest level until you "just know" she's interested.

one week later.... she accepted my friend request, i sent her a message but no answer. Thanks again for the advice guys. OH WELL, i was kinda excited about this one, but i see where i messed up and wont make the mistake again. On to the next!