Gurnman seems like u have personal reasons to attack Ay Bay. Well the point is acting gay to impress girls is wrong. Acting gay just because u think its fun is 100% ok. The example you gave is totally out of context. An alpha male thinks more of entertaining himself himself then he does about what the girl will think of him. Of course doing something like just grabbing her boobs suddenly or like u mentioned picking a nose are not acceptable and are disgusting. In this case it SEEMS that Ay Bay was entertaining himself and not the girls. Worst of all is hiding your feeling and expressing yourself. I have seen guys who dress up as gay dudes just for fun and get plenty of more numbers and action than PUA's. The rule of thumb is, as long as you're having fun your good. Once you start feeling like your acting or playing the game things worsen.

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Wrong. Picking nose and acting gay are 2 different things. You can't compare apples to oranges. You just have to know from intuition what to do, when to do. Naturals do this all the time.

You "act gay" when necessary. If I have a girl naked in front of me and begging for sex, am I going to act gay? HELL NO! If I see a girl and she's with another guy, the chances of me acting gay are higher. You have to learn to do it in a way where people know you're messing with them.

In my opinion, it's all about have a good sense of humor. You hear women telling you all the time what they like in guys... "Well... he has to have a good sense of humor." Also, I think you're a keyboard jockey who hardly goes out.

Let me break it down. I seen this chick last time I went out and she was dressed up sexy. Heels, skirt, and it's cold. I'm thinking this chick wants to fuck.

I walk up to her and say something ridiculous like...

"Damn gurl! Look atchu! I just wanna fuck the shit outchu!"

She started cracking up and said, "I appreciate how direct you are."

I told her if she heard that one song, it goes something like this... "I beat that pussy up, up, up, up" as I danced with her making my hip hitting her hip. She was cracking up again. I was cracking up, my boys were cracking up... we all were cracking up.

About 10-15 minutes later we go inside, I start doing some shock and awe and her ass is against my boner and were just chillin' there.

I told her that once the bathroom opens we're going to go in there. She agreed. Note that this is all in front of like 35 people... everyone was chillin' smoking hooka, nobody was dancin' or grindin.

I'm not going to lie though, like a dumbass I slapped her breast in front of everyone so she got off my dick. W/e, you learn from your mistakes.

Point is, humor is great! I don't see how you can seriously look at me, or anyone else who is like me, as a clown. A clown is someone who makes a fool out of themselves WHILE BEING SERIOUS!

PS - Here's the song just incase.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsnP8FDdVOo[/youtube]

I dont know you, all I have to judge on are the statements you've made in this thread. Hey man if you have that blend of humor dialed in and it works with the girls for you, more power to you. I just call em like I see em! I aim to help but these are just my opinions, its fine that you don't agree