First ..thanks to all the bros..veterans...for their input on this. I have decided to stay quiet and keep moving forward.


This is what i get out of nowhere this morning form her through text....(after three days of no contact)

"Hi hope you are well. You can still text me you know. We are still friends. I just cant continue to have lengthy conversations trying to get together to do things. Phone is better that's all. Talk soon and hope you are not working hard."

Well just freeze out for 1-2 months and reengage, what we can hope is that whomever she is currently seeing will not work out, and she will be horny and you will be the first one she thinks about. I give this a 25% chance which is your best bet. When you do re-enage make it casual, fun, low stress.

I will say that there is this great myth that's rampant around here that if your game is tight enough you can recover from a woman that has moved on. In most cases you cant, no matter how good your game is. How many ex's would you take back? The best you can do is play your best hand.

The second current myth I see is this call over texting nonsense. As I said, no chick on the down-slide is going to answer your call, thus now you are leaving callback humor, and if your not smooth on the phone you just made your situation worse. I think the "call them" crowd is just saying this because they are trying to seem alpha, which is noble, but the problem is it doesn't work. If you can choose between Alpha and effective, choose effective.


that's my 2 cents.

This is exactly why you tell her that you recognize she is looking for something different, and wish her luck finding it. You didn't make it clear enough that you have no intention of being her friend, or maintaining a "text relationship" with her. If you'd have said what I told ya to say, she wouldnt still be viewing you as a pussy who would be willing to do either of those things.. She'd either be out of your life or on your dick again.

I hate to open an old thread but I am noticing strange things...I followed everyone's advice on here and ignored this biatch...freeze off and then reengage after 2 months..its only been 5 days..and she keeps texting me......I am beginning to feel like a dickk which is a probably a good thing.....whats your opinion...should I keep holding it?

Day 3 "Okay..guess u upset cause I dont want to have a text MESSAGING relationship and dates over text. That's so immature. I am gonna need you to straighten up and and fly right young man.lol...Later"

I ignored it.

Day 5 " Hi. Hope all is well and that you are not working too hard. Have a wonderful day"

well it seems the freeze out is working.

You can feed her nebulous, low maintenace responses like:


werd turd
o'rly
lol
OMG cool

or you can not respond, she obviously misses your interactions if not your penis, so you can throw a little wood on the fire, or not

It definitely worked detox..thanks for your help! Following through with your lesson though...am not looking back

Good work, we can probably both guess that it didn't work out with whomever she forsaked you for.

Check this out Detox

Day 8

Her: "You know. Just as some said...if the person has to sneak around to call you..cant talk in the phone..there is something seriously wrong. Its almost like someone cheating where they only call a certain time of the day, u can only c then in certain days, etc. If a person is truly single and has no reservations or reasons to look over their shoulder, they should be able to talk to u on the phone whenever. Wow...if I had known you would act strange I wld have never hung out with u. I dont know any woman that wld be interested in only talking to someone via text emssage unless they are young dumb and immature. Grown ups do way more than text message to ask a person out. Wow...I learned my lesson. U need to truly meet a friend that is at your level...meaning wants to only text message. Later boy. "

twenty minutes later

Her: "I should have known u being 24 and all. U still have a lot of growing up to do. So when u said we will always bee friends no matter what u really did not mean that at least not the way u r acting. Just because i dont want to have a text message friendship...u dont want to be friends. Lol. You men are crazy and obsessive."

Five minutes later

Her:"U always have to hide. Thats scary to me and I am too mature for silly games. U r just selffish...its your way or the highway. Thats how you treat friends. I have always been nice to u"

Damn dude she is on your nuts. Obviously she is trying to get you to buy into her drama and bullshit, and then get on her level so she can take you for granted, and be back within her comfort zone. If you stay pleasant and detached that will drive her crazy in a good way.

You nailed it...what you mentioned about the comfort zone is absolutely right. And I did exactly as you said. "Enough...we need to talk in person" after the 3 pages of texts she sent me.

cool, just change it to:

"Enough...we need to talk in person, and wear your cute panties"

lol..she is going to feel like a slut if i do that...its going to backfire

Yeah, man, just move on. There's plenty of girls out there. Abundance.