alright, so i told her the I need to find a sexy nurse thing. she says

"this city is the center of porn. that shouldn't be too hard. Ok hun gotta go to bed, need to wake up at 7 and I have to take cupcakes to school for sons birthday."

i guess tomorrow i will say "sorry about my comments last night, I had a couple of beers?"
or?

Noo, don't apologize! You tested the waters, and she was not into it. Now you know you have to escalate in person with her before she'll text like that with you. Anyways, just tell her "I wouldn't have made it as a porn star anyway. Good luck with the birthday stuff."


-Ruggedized

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Agreed with rugg. What on earth would you apologies for? Don't make excuses, it's just who you were at that time, and she can handle that, women are made to handle that stuff, when you apologies to them, they're just like, 'ohgod.. is he really apologizing, what a pussy'

Well said ^^^

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she is not believing bro... She's is just playing along.. thats what women do.. Its a shame you didnt use his "Ironically they want me to play a doctor! I'm supposed to find someone to play the sexy nurse..." Text.. You come here for advice and then ignore the advice giving.. You don't seem like the type of guy who gets laid often, so why would you take your own advice or people who do get laid?

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Why would you send a very flirtatious text the first place if you're too big of a pussy to continue the flirting?
It seems to me you're just dropping lines without even understanding why you drop them. You're weird.

lol whenever i text a new girl for the first time the only thing going through my head is "please be a girl who gets it and plays along". iow, she was responding perfectly to you. and you ignored the advice (like they usually do) and ran it into the ground. that sucks for you. but it happens, live and learn.

you can get away with ANYTHING if you say it correctly. but you have to be coming from the right place and it has to be amusing. there was girl i dated earlier this year and in our first text conversation we had a like 15-message chain joking about me being a child molester. so thats proof nothing is off limits if you do it correctly. and ffs, stop apologizing for the stuff you say to girls.

also, fuze is correct.

guys,
i did tell her the "Ironically they want me to play a doctor! I'm supposed to find someone to play the sexy nurse" piece
and she said "this city is the center of porn, that shouldn't be hard to find. I have to go to sleep now, its late" or something like that, I am just paraphrasing.
then i said "actually, I was joking about the porn stuff. my situation is a little complicated and i cant explain it by text. I will tell you the next time i see you."
and she says "ok hun, you can tell me next time."

the only problem is, I have known this milf for like more than one year, and due to my lack of confidence, I have always been this serious guy with her. so now it doesnt make sense to her that that serious guy is saying these things. no wonder she believed me, she is under the impression i am a serious guy who never jokes.