Move on. Come to the US, while you are here plan trips to different cities and enjoy the experience beyond that one girl
Distance can make even the very best of relationships go down hill - speaking from experience.
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I met this girl three months ago in London. We hit it off immediately and saw each other every day. Within two weeks we were sleeping together and she spent nearly every night at my place..... She helped me find an apartment to rent and Im suppose to go out and see her in just a weeks time.
Why aren't you staying with her?
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.... She then sent me a sweet message good night. Feeling a bit horny I replied with a very forward message saying exactly what I felt like doing to her. I got no response.
You shouldn't have. You don't deserve a reply.
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The next day her messages were one word answers. So I asked her what was up. Again no response. Just saying she was busy. I called her and we had a 20 min chat but she was very cold.
That could be a lot of things incl. her feeling that you think of her as a slut.
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That night I got a long email from her explaining that she wanted to apologise for being rude but had to tell me a few things.
She still likes you but probably wants to explain things to you inorder for you to not think of her as a slut. If she wanted to she could have just not replied.
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Essentially - She really had expected after she had left that we would have kept in touch so much. She hated long distance relationships blah blah blah...... She said she was still blah blah.. ... she was surprised as we had only been together for two months and she didnt really think we were dating. .... her main concentration must be her friends and she really enjoys my company but i must understand that. ........
All she is trying to probably say is, "dont expect a relationship and dont expect me to jump into the sack with you !"
I dont know your game but if you've banged her for two months I'm guessing you probably have some seduction skills. Well, just dont start using them right away. The good thing is you guys have a history. The bad thing is you have probably already communicated to her that you want a relationship - texts, phonecalls, BBM and this travel trip. And she may be on a different page. May be she just wanted sex and is probably banging other guys here in the US while you are texting her.
I'd like to know what the experts here have to say on how to keep the attraction going in a long distance relationship ! Adam Lyons would have been the best person to answer this question.
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