Yeap been there, borderline was my conclusion, negged the shitted out of her in a cool calm way, like all the little games she pulled didn't phase me, even today we dont speak. She deleted me from facebook yet even today when I pass in the club and she's there, she can quit stop staring, got my own private stalker.

You have options.

Tell her that you don't like hanging out solo with guys. It's disrespectful to you as her BF. If you tell her in a firm yet confident/relaxed way (not controlling afc) she will most likely start defending herself. She is doing this cause you basically called her untrustworthy and a slut.

So depending how she reacts, if bad and defensive, you have got your point across. You now know you are allowed to act in simaliar ways(mimmick her) by having girlfriends, not caring and partying. Invest less. It will get the point across and if she cares about you she will stop having these guy friends.

Guys need to stop being fucking chodes when it comes down to girls respecting you. You don't like something...SPEAK UP....if she gets mad and leaves you, then is most likely cheating and trash anyways. A happy person has a empty mind, no feelings of worry, anxiety, jealousy... I would reccomend telling her you don't like it. Games and tatics are used by the weak. Just make sure you hold your ground and you have some good argumentitive points.

When you tell her you have a problem, DO NOT give her an ultimatum. Just tell how you feel and that you would like her to stop. You also should go out with her to party and meet these guys. Men are constantly trying to fuck her garaunteed. Make your presense be know. Mark your ground and they will be more hesitant to try.

Not trying to sound like a territorial baboon, but you need to act like a man not a bitch for people to respect you.

I don't know guys, I've read so many posts similar to this one, and it always strikes me just as a male insecurity. I mean, OP, you knew what she was like, what's the point in trying to change her? I doubt she's cheating on you. But if you don't like her behaviour, then leave her and find a girl who's behaviour is more agreeable with you. If you try to limit her freedom because of your insecurities, I can't imagine a happy ending. She hasn't hidden any info from you, she seems very much in love with you, she might be trying to get more of your attention, but I don't see it as anything else. I just hate it when somebody gives advice that you should demand she respects you. I can just imagine what it would feel like if somebody wanted to limit my lifestyle. What would it feel like to you if you had to change your friends because of her? She should ditch the inappropriate guy friends on her own, you shouldn't be the one to tell her that. Just my two cents.

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Though you do have a strong point, do you suggest just letting your girlfriend act however she wants you and you never ever saying anything about a behavior that you just don't like? Maybe her last boyfriend loved the things she does and because of that she thinks you will like it too. I don't see a issue with letting a girl know " hey, i dont like it when you do xyz" then letting her decide if she wants to fix it or not

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Yes, you should tell her, I do agree with that, you should tell her without emotionally blackmailing her, or demanding she stop it. If it's not a big deal to her, she will then stop, but If it's a big deal to her, then you know it's her lifestyle and she's not ready to change it, and if it's like that, you can either accept it or move on. Maybe I'm projecting my own emotional baggage here, because my ex slowly but steadily alienated me from my active social life, and it was such an ugly experience that I don't wish it for anyone, especially someone you "love". Last year I was with a girl that loved to smoke pot. I also like to have a few puffs, like once or twice a year, but not on a regular basis. It didn't even cross my mind to try changing that. All of her friends smoked, her whole social circle was like that. For me that was a sign she's not the right girl for me, so I broke it off. There were some other quirks that she wasn't going to change and I accepted that, and she accepted mine, but this wasn't something I could accept and something she could change at that particular moment in her life, so that was that

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