@Cha - Your inputs are fine/required, I am just sharing what I have decided.

am i the only one who has no idea what ^this sentence means?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I was just trying to say something regarding mind state. I just had this epiphany recently. Before I leave the house every morning I say to myself what I am grateful for and then I tell myself I am attractive so I get in the mindset of "looking for the game" sure I look at past failures and try to learn from them.

But when we stumble we keep walking. That is kind of what I was trying to say.

I know alot of it is internal work. You may be in a better place. So in that case just keep doing whatever works for you. But this mindset of looking for what I can have. What a women will give in context of a interaction. This way of thinking puts my head in the game. Then I do not care about weather or not I get laid. It becomes about weather or not she likes my game/actions. Then I feel way more alpha.

I can see how that info can be taken as feel good rubbish. lol
But honestly, this is what works for me. I feel way more natural with this mind set.

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Don't forget the ones, that helped make me, the man I like becoming!