She is sorry she can't hang with you. She feels sorry for ditching you. It never even enters into her mind that she is the one missing out by not seeing you. In other words, she has no desire to see you.

Anyone,

To understand Chicks, you have to understand CIRCLE THEORY. This is a theory I have developed to understand the LONG term aspirations of women. This does NOT apply to horny chicks looking to get banged or to the GAME...it applies to developing long term relationships that are meaningful.

CIRCLE THEORY is this....think of any person in terms of a circle...divide the circle in half. The Left side (now a half circle) represents EMOTIONS, INTANGIBLES the OH MY GOD...I LOVE THIS PERSON...call it chemistry, infatuation, fireworks..whatever. It is the that unmeasurable attraction that makes you have to have a chick that your own wingman might say..."hey, I don't get it..but for it!" The Right side of the circle is all the practical part of the person, and how that fits into your plans...same religon (or none at all), feels the same way about kids, money management, material things, family, importance of friends, mutual interests/hobbies...all that stuff that makes things easy.

The problem is most people focus on one side or the other. I can't tell you how many marriages i have seen fail because the guy was too focused on one side of the circle or the other...

So if you want a long lasting relationship focus on BOTH sides of the circle.

Now, where does GAME THEORY come in? You may find the perfect chick who barely knows you exist...you need to use The Game to get her attention, to hook her in, so you can then begin to let her see YOUR circle....The perfect girl for you will see both sides of you...

Here is THE most important thing to remember....Anyone who says there is ONE and ONLY ONE perfect person for you in the world, is full of it. There are hundreds if not THOUSANDS of women that are "The ONE"....

Your job is to meet tons of women, first by chemical attraction (using Game Theory if they arent intially into you) THEN...and this is the hard part....exploring the right side of the circle...the nuts and bolts to make sure the relationship would work from a practical standpoint. Here is a list from marriagebuilders that explores this practical side

Affection
Sexual Fulfillment
Conversation
Recreational Companionship
Honesty and Openness
Physical Attractiveness
Financial Support
Domestic Support
Family Commitment
Admiration

When you REALLY want to know if you are compatible with a chick...get her to rank those, 1 thru 10 (You should rank them HONESTLY yourself). If sex is #1 for you and #10 for her....you may have an issue worthy of dicsussion. Some people will not be honest with themselves when ranking this list..the best way to figure that out is by my CREDO.....JUDGE ACTIONS NOT WORDS...if some chick says that money isnt important yet she driving an M3 on a shitty salary...then she is just not being honest....if she says sex is #1 yet isnt very horny....well...again..the actions do the talking....

Remember...if even after using GAME THEORY....you can't get the chick to be into you (which means you dont have enough game yet) MOVE ON!!!! Life is too short to waste it on someone who isnt into you!

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Atomicglow