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PostPosted: Sun Jul 13, 2014 10:57 pm 
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What I mean to say is, being a "nice guy" isn't a good system either, because it's wishful thinking. But I just see a lot of missed-opportunities from both genders, because, "We all have to talk like this." It's not necessarily "talking like this," it's learning how to read interest and respond the way people like. Even the tips on here only scratch the surface of how to attract women, and I think it's because the men on here are only good at reading the obvious women, and that's true for women, as well: they want men with obvious masculinity. It's not that the nice guy is less masculine or the nice girl is less interested.


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I actually meant the Greenland comment as a compliment, because it showed interest
Yeah no, I got that.

You just need to familiarise yourself with social dynamics like the rest of us.

I've just started a supervisor job at work on the weekends, and I'm getting used to saying "thank you" to the workers when I leave. Thank you is a positive thing, right? Why would anyone object to that? But it also demonstrates me having a higher status than them, it suggests they've been working for ME, and so I have to handle it delicately.

You are now "qualifying" yourself to me. Interestingly it wasn't the banter that brought this about, but my intellectual deconstruction of your behaviour. It seems your G-spot is between your ears.

How does it feel? Going from giving a guy shit to seeking his understanding with humility? Would you go back if you could? :wink:

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 13, 2014 11:00 pm 
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I actually meant the Greenland comment as a compliment, because it showed interest
Yeah no, I got that.

You just need to familiarise yourself with social dynamics like the rest of us.

I've just started a supervisor job at work on the weekends, and I'm getting used to saying "thank you" to the workers when I leave. Thank you is a positive thing, right? Why would anyone object to that? But it also demonstrates me having a higher status than them, it suggests they've been working for ME, and so I have to handle it delicately.

You are now "qualifying" yourself to me. Interestingly it wasn't the banter that brought this about, but my intellectual deconstruction of your behaviour. It seems your G-spot is between your ears.

How does it feel? Going from giving a guy shit to seeking his understanding with humility? Would you go back if you could? :wink:
What you're saying is that I should look for a smarter guy. Thanks. :wink:


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 13, 2014 11:05 pm 
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If you ask me (and I know you hang on my every word), the response you get from guys is probably like that emotional/nice guys get from woman. As a guy I'm reading this thinking "hey, this girl is cool, she can break shit down intellectually, and can handle knocks to her self-image in a reflective way, why aren't more girls like this?"

Then I'll chase after the next girl who's like "oh my god stop being such a meany lol"

Just like girls are full of praise for guys who are open and emotional and "wish" more guys were like this. Then throw themselves at guys who have no feelings.
LOL,,, OMGEEE, DICKFACE :P

I literally concluded that I was the female nice guy first, I just hadn't posted it, because I had a longass post, ;D shuddup, lol.

See my reasons, though, they're very surprising. I think it's less the actual people and more the actual game that's flawed. And the way to win is totally rebuild the game. The game, as is, is about the less-fit reproducing in great volume. Not that I don't also want to just work within it and get what I can from that. I'd like stupid guys following me around, it gives me status. People just shouldn't gain value for inherently being the lowest common denominator, which is what the current game does. I blame corporations and the public education system for this mess.
And...

now you're speaking primarily from emotion...

You're employing high concepts to disguise (not very convincingly) that you're into me and want to continue this conversation. That is what you're bothered about, not about the specific content, which may be why what you've written is unreadable dross.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 13, 2014 11:35 pm 
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If you ask me (and I know you hang on my every word), the response you get from guys is probably like that emotional/nice guys get from woman. As a guy I'm reading this thinking "hey, this girl is cool, she can break shit down intellectually, and can handle knocks to her self-image in a reflective way, why aren't more girls like this?"

Then I'll chase after the next girl who's like "oh my god stop being such a meany lol"

Just like girls are full of praise for guys who are open and emotional and "wish" more guys were like this. Then throw themselves at guys who have no feelings.
LOL,,, OMGEEE, DICKFACE :P

I literally concluded that I was the female nice guy first, I just hadn't posted it, because I had a longass post, ;D shuddup, lol.

See my reasons, though, they're very surprising. I think it's less the actual people and more the actual game that's flawed. And the way to win is totally rebuild the game. The game, as is, is about the less-fit reproducing in great volume. Not that I don't also want to just work within it and get what I can from that. I'd like stupid guys following me around, it gives me status. People just shouldn't gain value for inherently being the lowest common denominator, which is what the current game does. I blame corporations and the public education system for this mess.
And...

now you're speaking primarily from emotion...

You're employing high concepts to disguise (not very convincingly) that you're into me and want to continue this conversation. That is what you're bothered about, not about the specific content, which may be why what you've written is unreadable dross.
This is a good example of reframing. You're so helpful! :D


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 12:09 am 
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You two would make a cute couple :oops:

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:42 am 
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You two would make a cute couple :oops:
Checkmate, wins the thread. :mrgreen:


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:47 pm 
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You're nothing if not irrepressible Anime, I'll say that for you.

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You're nothing if not irrepressible Anime, I'll say that for you.
All that smart effort building me up from nothing, just to get an angle on me would be a waste. You gotta know you're great anyway. x


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 11:49 pm 
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You both know there's private messaging, right?


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You both know there's private messaging, right?
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 Post subject: Re: Backing Off
PostPosted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 12:38 am 
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So stop with the cringe worthy flirting and bumping this stupid waste of time thread.


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So stop with the cringe worthy flirting and bumping this stupid waste of time thread.
Shuddup, I'm trying to get the last word in. :oops: :wink:


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