Girl I've been seeing for 5 months we work together and have had a few dates but both know we have some kinda feeling there but because she was in a long relationship before she met me she isn't really ready to get serious but she tells me she goes on dates with other guys but won't date me. Stupid thing is everytime we are together she flirts with me and has emotion in her eyes, usually tears.

Sometimes she will lecture me like she is my girl and flirts with me(allows me to put my hands allover her butt) and it appears that there is some kind of feeling there(tears in her eyes when we had a argument) but she has so much pride she won't admit it. We had a few minor arguments recently and it felt like we were a couple.

We just get on really well and that is what makes us feel like we would make a good couple because our personalitys gel. Im annoyed with her because I've not seen her for a week or spoke much because of our work schedules but last week she was all hot "baby" this and telling me "wet" she was etc then week later she writes on facebook "am I ready or am I not" and this guy was saying yeah your ready for me, and she was like "what are you offering" and he was like "for you to be mine, will you be mine" and she goes "depends, what makes you any different" and then one of her friends writes "go for it, in your own time"

So as much as I know she likes me I know she isn't really speaking of me because she dates so many different people and the worst thing is I have alot of feelings. Despite her hot and cold behavior she does appear to have feelings for me. I can just tell but it seems to me she will never give me a fair chance for some reason. "am I ready or am I not" makes me feel someone else is higher on her list. Maybe because I'm not the bad boy she is used to

Or maybe because you're chasing her all over town. Girls want what they can't have. Move on, grow some balls. start dating other girls. Stop flirting with her at work, be friendly but don't show interest. If she really wants you she'll go to you, if not atleast you moved on already.

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I'm not ready to move on yet though. I feel a connection with her different from others. I'm 27, I've had a few.

so she's fresh out a relationship, is used to bad boys, and you've been seeing her five months and haven't fucked her?
i hate to be the one to tell you this but shes fucking other people and your the nice guy to fill her emotional side while others fill her sexual side. you need to fuck other girls, she needs to know your fucking other girls, fuck it. go fuck someone you work with. but stop being so damn emotional. your too easy and available, and i can guarantee you dont tell her what to do. just ignore her for two weeks, see other girls and then dont ask her TELL HER your going to hang out. be aggressive, be a man, and take charge.

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