Seems like I can attract a girl. I'm female too, but I've got the same issues as guys have with women. I've hit on them at clubs or have met them online and the first meeting goes well enough times, that I know I can attract them. But once I've got them on a couple dates, then I start to get needy and invested and they pull away. By pulling away, I mean not contacting me as much and generally acting like they can sit back and not do the work they did one date one and two. They aren't attentive or trying to win me over anymore.

I found myself in this situation again. I'm brainstorming for some ideas and have come up with these:

1. Back off the text and emailing. I didn't text or email her today at all. She didn't either but today is the first day I've tried this. I'll hold out and see if/when she responds to the lack of attention from me.
2. Be late for out plan to see each other. Text and say I'm caught up doing something and will be a late. We have plans tomorrow at 1:00 and for the entire day with a sleep over implied. So I can text her around 12:30 and say I'm running late and will see her at 2:00 then text again saying 2;30.
3.Leave early. If I know she's got to do something at noon, then leave at 9 am, just a little after I wake up. She will be expecting morning time with me and won't get it. Everyone hates having something taken away unexpectedly.
4.Meet more women. This will keep me busy.

Are these good? Can you add another?

Honestly, I'm loving all of these. The girl I'm working on right now I'm doing exactly as your number one. I'm trying to keep her on hold until the weekend is over.

What you put seems like you might be placing yourself into one-itis, like me. I would definitely work of finding more ladies to have with you, especially if you seem needy.

Imagine yourself having so many girls wanting you, that the one girl you are talking to doesn't matter. Everytime you talk to her just think of that. I'm hoping that will work because that's what I've kinda been trying. I hope that helps a bit.

p.s. I'm sorry if it's confusing, I've been drinkin'