I was camping last night with some of my friends and some girls, I was pretty drunk and high. I rang my girlfriend to see how she was and ask her out on a date, but she kept saying "Oh Jacob keeps coming into the room", "I'm sat with Sam at a bar".

WTF, why would I care? I think she's trying to test me if I really like her and get jealous (which I am).

I was at a camping party and she was at a different house party, why did she do this and how should I counter-attack her jealousy tests?

Thanks, Blue

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Why did she do this? WHY DID YOU CALL? You're at a camping party having a good time, enjoy yourself and forget her. You should have waited until the next day or even the day after that to contact her. All you did was bring your status down (because in her eyes you're the one chasing her) and make yourself jealous. And I say YOU made yourself jealous because she doesn't have the power to do that, YOU do. I hope that makes sense.

Of course she was trying to make you jealous. She doesn't want you having fun, she wants you all twisted and bothered by the good time she is having. This is how women think DannyBlue, get used to it.


"Oh Jacob keeps coming into the room", "I'm sat with Sam at a bar".
My response would have been...."Tell Jacob and Sam I said hi, I'll talk to ya later doll face." She would have been asking herself...'Why didn't he get mad, is he having a good time without me, what's he up to?' Keep THEM twisted, keep THEM guessing while remaining cool, confident and unaffected.

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Thanks man! This advice is perfect, it helped alot. I appreciate it .

She's not texted me or called me today, do you think I should leave it? It's because I left her with a bad impression I think.

Do you think I should text/call her to see what's up?

Thanks, Blue

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She's not texted me or called me today, do you think I should leave it? It's because I left her with a bad impression I think. Do you think I should text/call her to see what's up?


Do I need to slap the wussie out of you? Stop it! So you haven't heard from her, so what. What's going to happen, is your heart going to stop?

No, don't call her to see what's up. F*ck, go do something. Keep your head occupied. In a few days, if you want to hang with her, call her and set something up. Don't call to get caught up or just chat, leave that for face to face communication.

Alpha Males and High Status Males are constantly busy doing stuff and enjoying life. They are not concerned with what 'she' is doing or when 'she' might call. Why? Because their lives DO NOT revolve around HER, SHE is not the center of their universe. Alphas invite women into their lives, not the other way around. If the woman/girl does not make the grade, they get booted, period.

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But I really like her? What if she loses attraction to me dude?

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I know that stage!!!

This is how I got over! I said fuck it and didn't send a text to her until she replied to me and I made sure to leave an hour or two between every text and limited it to 4 texts a day.

Then, I would text her the next day and just continue the conversation like there was no gap between us texting.

If she looses attraction, then the attraction was barely there to begin with. If that's the case, you need to learn how to build attraction and her interest level. Absence makes attraction go up, not down.

Get rid of the 'but i really like her' mentality, it will be your downfall. You need to build your confidence.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Thanks alot man, you've turned my attitude around in a matter of minutes!

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+ After my little slip up, do you think she will still be attracted to me?
I rang her like 8 time man, I was drunk and being such an AFC.

However, she seems really into me, she said she wanted "to have my babies" so... what do you guys think?

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Come on man you got to lose this afc right away if you want a chance with her. If shes telling you she wants to have your babies F*ck the shit out of her and get her wanting more. If you want to be any good at this you have to locate your mistakes and make sure it doesnt happen again.

That's exactly why I'm asking all these questions dude

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Sry if i came off alittle harsh. To get a girl you have to be willing to lose her. Now ask yourself could you lose this girl right now and still be fine. If no then you need to take a step back and do some inner work. The biggest mistake you could make is giving her the power to run you, cuz once that happens its game over. MAKE HER WANT YOU lol.

Guys, I fucking love you all, especially you Sinful.

Just got a text from her:
"I hate texting people first and never do it but I will make an exception for you, because I want to talk to you"

I love you all!

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