So we all know that telling a girl that we're "friends" is a good way to disqualify and build attraction. But what if she's already demonstrated attraction? Two recent cases that went bad for me after I used the f-word:

* An HB 8.5 came up to me and told me that she'd been wanting to talk to me since the moment I walked into the club. After we chatted for a few minutes I told her to add me on Facebook so we could be friends. She started getting chilly. I sent her the request later, and sure enough, she didn't accept it.

* An HB 8 was eyefucking me, and I rolled up to her, gave her a hug and started talking. IOIs flying all over the place and after I got her number, I told her I'd call her so that we can be friends, build a treehouse and skip rocks. Don't remember much of a reaction, but when I texted her later, she ignored.

I've never seen it stated explicitly, but maybe you should avoid using "friend" after the first major signal of attraction on her end? Or maybe the problem was that I didn't build on her demonstrations of attraction by increasing kino, changing venue, etc.

Thoughts?

Why do you tell a girl that says that she wanted to meet u when u got into the club to add u on facebook?!

As the least option she should give her # to you.
But man when a girl tells me that, i start a nice chit chat and escalate fast and heavy because a line like that is a open ticket for me!

On the second one i don't got a real answer, usually i just say that she should give me her number and leave it at that.

So i don't know if it affects that u say u see her as a friend..

Goodluck!