Over the last two years I have had some lmr with about 7 girls. All very similar situations, il go out clubbing have fun with the girl in the club get the k close and suggest going back to mine (so my intentions are pretty clear). Then when back at mine even when just in our underwear on 4 occasions bra off then lmr on getting the panties off? Last night I tried the line "I wouldn't want to do anything both of us arent comfortable with" and carried on getting off but then nothing. And each time there is nothing!

Would be great to get a couple of standard responses.

What's your mid-game look like?

"you've been alot of fun how can we arrange doing this again some time?" she offers her number. Then I bring up anything from earlier conversation that we had in common to suggest doing. Always lots of kino be it when dancing or holding hands on the way home.

I have been looking up possible routines for the cab home, just to keep it more alive.

your mid-game probably lacks sexualization. you need it to create more of an expectation that things will lead to sex, thus reducing LMR to mere token resistance.

Yeah that makes sense I do get uncomfortable with that, is there anything you can suggest?

Check out the Sexual SFT section in my Guide to Outer Game sticky in the PUA Lounge. I think that should help.