me and my friends(6guys, 2 gals)(i am an asian and my friend is a german and the rest is all english)were in a local pub yesterday, a bar tender who we know came up to us and start talkin, at the begining i took him as a friend and treat him like my buddy, after a while he suddenly asked me and my friend are we gay, and he was making jokes about our names and stuff like that.me and my friend are always the leaders of the group, but he just took us down completely.we thought he was our friend, but he was being absolutely a cunt , he offenced us alot,me and my friend were being cool wif it caz we didnt know how to fight back, and he said''u guys are actually quite cool,as i can make some racist joke without u feeling offenced'',to be honest , he is a natural, he is good.if this kinda situation happened again, is there anything that i can do???or is there any AMOGroutine that i can use??how should i respond when someone is saying that i look gay??

'Cool story bro'

'Yes. Next'

'No I won't have sex with you'

'Ask your mother'

'I can't take you seriously with that haircut'

Anything > nothing. Being offended is the worst mindset.

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is there anything that i can do when a gal is being rude and said''u look like an idoit??'' thanks a lot

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make a joke out of it..... say something like:

"Yes we are.... and my boyfriend doesn't appreciate you hitting on me, isn't that right honey....

or if you're alone just say somethin like.. "my boyfriend assured me this wouldn't look gay before i went out"

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and then! after the one of the jokes remind him he's there to fucking serve you.... order a drink and give him a tip.

don't get offended don't let it even effect you, just take it as "guy banter". I would of shot back with "no i'm sorry i'm not interested in you. so sorry to break your heart i would like a vodka tonic". Maybe its just the attitude in my group we are a cutthroat bunch when it comes to jokes and nothing is sacred. So we aren't in the least effected when someone tries to make a joke we just throw one back and laugh.

say something funny back to his insult.
then stand up out of your chair.
ask "will ya get me some cheezy frys there bud?! i expect it here when i get back.. asap!"
Give him a nice firm pat on the back(make his fucking feet loose balance)
laugh and walk away from the douche he really is.