This is a long post but it could make a HUGE difference in your game
This is a subject that is a little controversial, basicly its on compliments and letting the girl know you like her, mystery method guys tend to have the biggest problem with this, so just to put it out there
IT IS OK TO COMPLIMENT AND LET GIRLS KNOW YOU LIKE THEM
but dont just take my word for it, have a watch of these videos
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIq58si1pB4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BMZoqXvH6CE (listen to Sinn says about his friend future at the start and listen Sinns story at the end)
I'm no fan of Sinn I dont fallow his teaching but the guy has plenty of valid points to make and does know his stuff, even if he does tend to over complicate things
See the problem with compliments is compliments with no justification, everybody is doing that, some times they work but most of the time the girl will be thinking hes only after one thing
What does a girl mean by "hes only after one thing"
Basicly it means that she thinks you think she is easy, which equals dumb or stupid etc, It doesn't mean she doesn't want to have sex she just wants to know that you actually like her
GIRLS WANT TO HAVE SEX AS MUCH AS YOU DO, IF NOT MORE!
Captain jack talks about things like, when you are talking to a girl and all of a sudden the set goes to hell, she loses interest and moves on
You'll find this happens alot with indirect and the reason as Captain Jack would put it is because she has figured out that you don't get it, you have no idea why she is there and you are wasting her time while she could be hooking up with a guy who understands what its all about
Guys like Hypnotica compliment, he even talks about it in his infield insider, Adam Lyons is the main reason for this post, his material made me realise alot of shit that I was told not to do when started out
(and by the way it was stuff I had done in the past before community bullshit convinced me not to) like compliment, the only thing was I didn't know how to do it properly and it would only work every so often
I give all credit to Adam Lyons for what I'm going to write, and for waking me up again
When you compliment you are hitting on her, you are giving her IOI's, but to make it consistantly believable you have to give a reason
e.g.
"I like the way you have your hair, It remains me of the way spanish girls had their hair when I was in madrid, those girls really understand how to be sexy and stand out"
Hit on girls, let them know you like them, when Captian Jack explains his game he says all he really does is set sexual frames and then tell the girl he likes her.
You can talk for hours all you want, but if you don't let the girl know you like her she'll figure you just don't get it and she'll either walk off or friend zone you
My realisation for this was, on my facebook theres a girl that I had a little fling with when I first started out in game when I didn't really know what the hell I was doing, I came so fucking close to having sex with her, this was a girl previously so far outa my league that when I first approached her she treated me like I was a bad smell
that was two years ago, but she left for a year and came back, so I decided I was going get this chick again, anyway, I'd been trying to game her and out of everything that worked and got her attention it was commenting on a photo of her dressed up like a moulin rouge girl using what I talked about above, this has been the only time she has actually responeded by commenting on a photo I'd put up a few days later, shes never wrote on my profile ever before.
I now know how to game her, and the next time I'm at a house party with her or in the position to talk I'll be able to fully sort it out, I already know she likes me but somewhere down the line she has thought I didn't get it and that I'll just waste her time, but she'll know soon enough I know whats up now my game is at the level it is
So long story short, let girls know you like them, compliment them once at some stage of the set and give a reason why you think they are sexy and you'll see how far it takes you
if anyone doesn't understand any of this post fire your questions my way because I wrote this post fast, I'm open for discussing and clarification
http://www.youtube.com/user/infieldpuaexamples check out this channel on youtube, it has some good videos, watch the cajun video, these keys to the vip clips are all good examples of how far complimenting can take you, just don't over do it and remember to give a justified reason for the compliment