hi, i have noticed a pattern that happens to me with girls in school. i am in high school, 17.

the problem is, girls acting mean and being total bitches to me. i have a very flirty personality, but tend to be a bit of an asshole but i always make it seem like its a joke so they dont take it too seriously. i do not show that i get mad, i even play around with them while they get angry and im just sitting there smiling and having a good time. i even call them silly for acting like that. but they are relentless, and continue being like that even when i try to move forward by touching them or being nicer to them. they only respond with negative remarks callin me a creep.
ive noticed this pattern developing a lot with girls that i flirt with and im trying to get passed it.

what do i do to get out of that whole mess and start sexual flirting, and having sex with them. what are the guidelines and specific examples of things to say when they try acting bitchy.

i feel as if they like me and they cant control it, thats why they react like that, and i am thinking of just being straight out nice to them but im not exactly sure and might end up getting rejected. since its in school i see them everyday and it always seems to happen like that. i always display confidence and act playfully and dominant, this is like my main sticking point that i need to fix so please help me thoroughly.

thanks a lot really appreciate anyone willing to help

bump ^^

nobody has any advice or some insight to what is going on? sorry that it looks messy

There are 3 options here:

1) Most of the girls you are approaching are teasers... some girls love to tease, trust me I have seen it.

2) You are too much of a teaser, if you are busting their balls constantly don't be surprised that they fight back (you'll have to learn to create connection and engage in small talk to gain some rapport)

3) You are just a plain idiot and you are actually insulting them (nothing good is going to come out of this)


Sorry but your explanation is meesy and is hard to say which one of the above 3 is the true.

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thats just girls using their "bitch shield". i just say

"Idk who your ex bf was, but he didnt spank you enough"

when they start actin up.

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thats exactly what i need, to make a connection and create some rapport.
how do i go about doing that when i even try to talk to them normaly they still act that way. what are some ways to stop all this teasing for a while for us to connect?
some specific stuff.

thanks a lot btw

Well, if you already got them into teaser mode it's gonna take some time for them to know you a little better and start opening to you.

Step 1 is going to be isolate her
Step 2 is talking more serious things with her (keep the cocky and funny, lower the silliness and talk about something you can make a connection with her)

Examples: Your and her passions, your and her childhood, how men are different to women, etc...)

That's the basics.

Once they are engaging, share a weakness with them and throw an implied compliment every once in a while.

Hope it helps.

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