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PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2011 10:02 pm 
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Hey guys,I #closed an HB9.5 last evening.

I've been gaming her on and off for few months[whenever I bump into her by chance around my area].

I bumped ino her last night while she's jogging,I blocked her path from running in order to stop her.

We chit chatted and bantered for 5 minutes,then I # closed.

But she said to me(during the chat)that she doesnt like texting and rarely replies to them.

My bullshit alarm went off;which chic doesnt like texting?

By that,I came to this conclusion that she meant:

1)"Dont text me,I prefer to chat like real ppl and accelerate the pickup".

2)It was an IOD.Despite giving me her #,she wishes to not connect.

3)She genuinely doesnt like texting.

So guys,how should this be handled?

I texted her with some call-back humor but 45 minutes ago,but she hasnt replied.

Should I just call since she did say she isnt a texter?

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I would go for She genuinly doesn't like texting and prefers to chat face to face.

And it was a smart move texting her to test the waters. If you've gotten the text back it would be such an IOI. Her not replying is definitely not a good thing, wheather she likes texing or not.

I wouldn't call her or text her, not replying is a rude thing and that deserves a freezout. I hope you'll be able to bump into her again and have a chance to do instant date or make some solid day2 plan.

What you could have done when she told you she doesn't like texting is reward her with soi. Talking about how 93% of communication is nonverbal and you can never tell what someone's really saying unless you are face to face, some stuff like that...

Also I've found out that callback early on can backfire if you don't have enough attraction yet. Girl can put you into a "It's nice that you've come up with a reason to text me" frame which suks. With next girl you can try sending something random, and if she's receptive use callback.

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PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 2:38 am 
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Thanks for the reply Defy.

I did text to test the water.

The fact that she didnt reply I dont view it as an IOD(indicator of disinterest)since she said she doesnt do text.

I plan on calling her tomorrow to chit chat a bit.

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