I've known her 2 months get on great sure she is immature but deep down she is cool but she has LJBF me still shows me I have a chance. Well this guy she makes him think she is keen and that she isn't interested in me. Well this asian guy at our work just started like a month ago, he is weird.

Braids and tatoos but talks like a woman. He seems to like her and doesn't realise how well we know eachother. Since I've seen the two of them at work, he keeps going up to her and when she is around him she has no worrys making him feel that she doesn't like me or isn't with me.

She turns her back to me, talks to him more and other weird things. She seems to like him, never even talks to me around him. He's pretty new to work, AFC as shit "If you ever need help moving your stuff we will all be there to help you!!!!!" ina gay voice. Meanwhile looks at me like he wants to fight.

Like we all go the train home weeks ago and it was the first time I had seen him, and she would sit away from me and then told him to come sit next to her when he sat in front. I got angry/jealous then she started talking to me more when she saw that.

I told why do that you're making me look like an idiot. She tried denying it and then we departed and went home together. he was like "CYAAAA GUYYYYZ" Then tonight she was all near me and flirting one minute and she kept talking dirty to me while and we got changed ready to go and the guy spotten us and turned around all upset when she tried to talk to him and then went on the train with us and was he was trying to get rid of me and so was she in a way.

He was asking me where am I going, and she was like "ur going a different way than us" and was pulling a weird face. He was like "I think its easier for you to go that way" I told him "I know how to get home" I said to her "u trying to get rid of me" and she pulled some other really weird face.

Guy was acting like he seriously wished I wasn't there and then she sat down and jumped like an AFC and sat next to her. She sat there barely speaking to me but not saying that much to him. The guy talks like a woman but wants a piece of her. Guy eventually got off and really didn't want me staying with her I mean who the hell is he I don't know where he come from. She also had a look of relief when he left but she still acts as if she was into him more.

I got home my battery died and I got a txt from her saying "sex" she doesn't live near me, I txt her her back telling her I just got back now and then I tried to call no response.

What should I do about this crap, I can't take how we get on like crazy going to work, then she treats me like a nobody around people and acts as if she likes this gayfc? She also wrote on facebook she just got home, I wrote on her wall,someone else wrote something...she removed the whole thing.

I think she did it with some other message I wrote that she ASKED me to write on ALSO. So I believe she doesn't want me talking to her like I'm her boyfriend, because she doesn't want to hurt her the feelings of her ex. So NEXT her or find a way to PUMP and DUMP?

For me it's pretty blatant that she loves the attention of having two guys more or less fighting over her. If I were you i'd punish her for being an immature little girl.

Quite simply i'd back off, show her no attention, and when all she's getting is a needy girly guy giving her attention, she'll soon realise what she's missing, and most importantly realise that you aren't her's to fuck around with - remember, you are the prize.

I also recently had a situation like this. I didn't text the girl for 5 days and she soon came running back.. however I decided that I really didn't want to persue with her anymore, and she finally text me saying "Blergh. Cba." My point being that she will run back to you, i'm 100% sure of that.

Get chatting to other girls and make sure she knows about it, DHV my friend!

Oh and personally, this guy sounds like a prick.. don't feel like you're losing the battle between you if you "appear" to give up, cause he definitely won't be getting her. At the end of the day you either smash her in the long run and get your own back, or things fizzle out, you don't speak to her, and you do the guy over for being such a twat. (the last bit of obviously optional.. i would though!)

I see what you're saying. Half of me wants to kill off everything with her than the other half knows we get on quite well it's just WORK is getting in between us and I can't face the consequences if we do stop speaking to eachother.

This prick who right now she has known only for 2 weeks will still be walking about glued to her ass and god knows what she would tell him about me. I really feel that when she walked in the train and sat down I really shouldn't of allowed him to sit next to her, made it feel like he came across dominant but I only did that because she was keeping her distance from me while talking to him.

I also didn't say alot on the train because there was on guy who was sitting next to me who was talking mostly to him, the AFC prick was just sitting next to her like "and what?" so I had nothing to say to him, and everytime I tried to speak with her I just got one words answers. I can't believe someone who I was falling for could do this.