Last night at the party I went to there was this chubby girl there who was a 7. I knew if I'd said or done the right shit she'd be sleeping in my bed right now. At the part I stuck out like a sore thumb, partially because I don't get to go out much, and last night was the first time I ever drank beer. I was scarred as hell, I didn't know how to maintain conversation, and I was pretty much just background noise to everyone else at the party.

My question is, how do I learn to keep pace with the crowd? I didn't dominate any sort of conversation or anything. I was scared the whole time. I asked serj, he told me that I should match the energy and add a bit extra. I also talked a bit slow, but I thought that was good thing? I admit my volume wasn't up there. Guys who were in this situation b4, plz help an ignorant noob out.

hey haha
im just as new to this whole scene as you are but i think i can help you out here
whenever i go out im automatically the alpha, my friends just naturally believe that so it happens

i went to a party last night and i didnt f close anyone but i got everyones attention and a couple numbers just by being the life of the party
show great energy and talk to everyone...refrain from giving everyone your name, rather make them want to know who you are
I found people asking others who i am cuz they wanted to know me better but didnt wana ask me personally cuz they were nervous!

just portray self confidence and a great view of yourself, talk to everyone, make people laugh and everyone will flock towards you

hope that helped

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