Speaking with this girl I work with for 2 months we had one date and she continued to ring me and treat me as her BF and we kissed a few times. She recently got out of a relationship so she wasn't ready to jump into things but we would be on the phone for hours. We know eachother really well and get on great. VERY cute and funny. Played videos games online together too :p

She told me weeks back she wanted to be friends pretty much dumping me she didn't like that I got jealous when she mentioned guys asking for her number etc but she kept ringing a few days after and showing interest.

We work together and we would decide to meet up and get on the train and she gave me a lift once. We flirted like mad and were all over eachother in her car 2 weeks ago but she never kissed me she was saying "I'm rushing" laughing and "I will another time" and kissed my forearm lol.

Last week she called me like 16 x but last week she only has called me 3 x. and I have called nearly everyday and it's not like her to be like this so I think she doesn't care that much for me now. Keeps saying she is single and guys on her facebook flirt with her ask her out on date on her facebook page all the time and she goes out with lots of male friends. She asked me if I was working this Wednesday and I said yeah it would be good to see you and she said "yeah"

She then started going on about how she wants to leave her mums house and there isn't anywhere to go really(she said this once before) I live at home with parents and she knows it will be awkward. She mentioned even though her ex was a prick his family didn't mind. She also said he was rubbing it in that she can't stay now. I said "I don't know what to say to that" the last time she brought the subject up I was frozen out for a week. Obviously she expects me to offer and a few nights is one thing but full time isn't practical.

So I see she isn't calling me like she used to(every other day) so should I start to cut down or stop? I want her still.

Anyone got anything?

Dude, you're doing so many things wrong it hurts me a little, so forgive me for being a little bit harsh, but it's so you get the point.
You rushed a bit in thinking she treated you as her boyfriend, a kiss is a kiss she was just in the moment and looking if you were boyfriend material.
That's bullshit, if tomorrow George Clooney asked her out she wouldn't be talking about her boyfriend and how she's not ready yet.
Congratulations on making yourself one of her girlfriends, never never EVER spend HOURS on the phone, a phone is meant to be used as A WAY TO SEE HER.
You're getting a little bit too emotional on a girl you have only gone out once and kissed a few times. Try to avoid it.
I think you got it wrong, because i see it as you were never really going out, so she put you on the friendzone because my guess is you failed to escalate physically and manage to get sucked into her drama by being hours on the phone with her. Plus, because you weren't going out, it's normal she didn't like that you got jealous, it shows you're low value.
You're rationalizing details.
I don't understand how you can be all over eachother and not even kiss, i think she just tried to politely reject you. BTW who is interested in someone and prefers to kiss them on their forearm and not their lips?
Needy behaviour, you are not giving her a chance to miss you, and you are showing her that she's all you have (is my guess right?).
That's because she always was.
She tested you and you failed. It was like sayin to her "my only purpose in life is to see you", you should build yourself a busy life.
You're acting like she's your whole life and like you OWE HER SOMETHING. Let me tell you.. YOU DON'T.
If she's unhappy with your decisions, you shouldn't care.


My advice you NEED to read these ebooks right away :
- Mystery Method - The Venusian Arts because as old as it is, you seem to have no knowledge of basics like your Social Value and DHV and DLV
- How to become an alpha male John Alexander
-Gary Brodsky - How To Dominate
- Paul Janka Attraction Formula
- David X Be Relentless
- Gambler's Natural Game

Good luck !

Agreed with most of that. Forgot to mention how much she was acting like my girl immediatly. Obviously we K-closed but I had a birthday the week after we met and she insisted in bringing me a Birthday card.

I was like it's fine don't worry and she came around I got in her car drunk as hell and we made out. From the way she was looking at me and acting it seemed like it was once. 2 months of phonecalls followed that but the problem was she would flake when I asked her to meet me.

So I guess there is no chance to turn things around? I'm going to check if she is on going to work together tommorow but doubt she will be on that after he 6 day freeze out.

Vaporize yourself for a few months, then come back at her as another person.

No really, you made an impression of a Needy, approval seeking, self doubting guy.

Work on that, then get back on track.