I know how little of a problem this might seem, but it kills my game. I have no problem going up to people and starting to talk. But being social is not being seductive. I can open pretty much anyone (something i used to not be able to do so thats a plus)

When i am at a party and meet a new girl i feel like its more "having a conversation" then it is "spitting game" I do use a lot of cocky funny and playful teasing, but im missing something... maybe its push-pull, which to be honestly i dont understand how to implement in my game on a short term basis. I also will use small little kino things such as touching hb's backs when i tease them, make the hand shake last longer then a 3 seconds and pull away etc. Somethings missing though. I dont try and come on very strong but thats kinda on purpose. I dont risk creepy and to be honest i care about my reputation in general so im not willing to do that stuff where people look at you and instantly know "damn this guys goin on her hard"... any ideas what my problem maybe specifically?

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.