I got a problem here.

I give a vibe of a player, although I'm not. This shit is getting ridiculous...When I went on my FIRST DATE in my life...girl asked me how many gf's I had...I was embaraced and said 4...she thought I was lying and said a smaller number. When i got FIRST KISS in my life...girl kept wondering on how experience I must've been with girls because of my confidence...I don't mean to brag, this is a serious problem for me.

All I want is a cute asian gf, who is very intelligent, and a bit nerdy:)...but when I meet them, I get one of two reactions: 1) they think I'm gonna play them or I'm making fun of them, if I say that I like them. 2) Get cautious...I've had one that was ready to risk...but I afc'ed myself out. This isn't a problem with white girls...they seem to like it, but asian girls(asian girls from asia) seem to be cautious about this vibe...IDK..

The conclusion I came up to, is that I might build too much attraction, without any emotional connection...thinking back I had a really deep connection with that girl, who agreed too start seeing me...but again, I wasn't ready back then...

Anyways...here is one example of what this looks like:

I went to stay at my friend's house for thanksgiving, there were bunch of friends, we all stayed together at the same house for a few days...I kinda liked 1 of 2 girls in the house...when their mom told me that she found me charming, and that I looked like a "ladies man" and told her girls to be careful of me(jokingly.)...IDK...I only had 1 k-close by then...(i got second one in that house from that girl though )

Brand new girls, who I meet, tell me that they have impression of me as having many girls, and even those who knew me for a while, tell me I must've a lot of girls, and my only reply is: "Do you know one?". Most of my guy friends think I'm a big pimp or smth(although that image, must've been when I n-closed some girl, in less than a minute, but that was totally flaky number)...I'm not especially good looking...just an average 5 feet 8 white guy. with a few pimples on my face, no peacocks, or super expensive staf...often times jeans and a shirt...idk what's going on...more importantly-wtf to do with it? ????

I know RIGHT where you're going wrong! Tone down the confidence! It sounds like the type of girls you're into (asian/smart/nerdy) maybe have a few self confidence issues. These are smart girls, not super models. (not saying one can't be the other but you see what i mean) These types of girls do not react positively to cocky guys. You ought to try to build more rapport with them. Get on their level. Take an interest in what they value. You're going to want to neg a lot less and agree with them a lot more. Show them a bit of your sensitive/vulnerable side! Good Luck! Update when you can!