how do i get a girl to chase me, such as in texting, chatting, and calling me to just talk or meet up? how do i get them emotionally addicted to me. my behavior is unpredictable and when im flirting i totally get them involved and they comply, but its like after that conversation they forgot about me until i begin talkin to them. so how do i get them really into me and always blowin up my phone?



also a side question for experienced people, is too much flirting bad? is giving simple answers and just going with the flow sometimes good? because this is something that ive been thinkin about why girls might not message me first. is this coming across as needy if i always flirt? i notice that when i do this in the beginning women love it. do girls sometimes want normal conversations?


thanks a lot guys

I think a good idea in conversation is to continually keep them guessing. Girls have shorter attention spans than monkeys, so if you act the same way or do the same thing every time, they will notice. This is coming from a conversationalist, not a bonafide PUA, but try this: after about 10 minutes into a conversation with a girl, completely shift roles. If your being super-sweet, be a dick... or vice versa. If your not well received, at least you'll be memorable.

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yea thats true, but theres gotta be somethin i can do to make her chase me

why do people chase things, how do you become something that's "chaseable", think about it

by being uncomprehensible and unpredictable???

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you should really read some david deangelo stuff

done that already... I don't like his books, I feel it is not very focused
any concrete sugestion?

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Women will only chase someone they want. They'll only want something if 1. It's interesting and stays that way and 2. If she can't get it.
You've got the first pretty well covered from what I read, the second part is where you need help. And for that I'd say simply play hard to get. You can initiate the conversation, but keep it short (3-4 min for phone) and if you're texting, don't be afraid to not text her back. Great way to extend it to day two is to not respond to a text until the following day. Just pick right back up. What you need to remember is that YOU are the prize, not her. Once you get that mindset and keep it, you'll have no problems at all.

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I think the best way to get a girl to chase you is to fuck her but not completely commit to her for a while. Up until you fuck her you're probably gonna have to do most of the work. (Also think about it, it takes more effort to use clever techniques to try to get her to chase you than it does to just chase and fuck her...)

Also about how much flirting you should do - it's all about balance. Too much and she'll just see everything you say as a big joke. Remember the class clown in school? Could you ever take him seriously? No... And that's not how you want women to see you. Too little flirting and she'll find you boring. Balance it out