Hey I've been unable to pull my own hot girls on my own and I'm tired of waiting and wishing I could. I've read some pua newsletters and the like and have come to realize my biggest problems are opening and knowing what to talk about to keep a girl interested.
Right now I'm a pretty decent looking guy and I know I'd be capable of getting lots of girls if I could approach or initiate convo. I usually can do a good job at getting a girl interested after that as long as I'm not afraid I will turn her off. The thing is that I never know what to say to a girl I don't know and want to talk to. A simple 'hey what's up' sounds easy enough but I feel corny sometimes and I don't know where to go after. Should I tell a joke? Ask where she's from and what she's doing at whatever? I have no clue and it makes it hard for me to approach knowing this. Opinion openers could work in the right situation but I'm pretty much against most canned openers.
My other problem with keeping a girl interested kills me too. I've gotten girls to like me but I always do it by avoiding and interacting with them at the right time. I used to have those hour long phone convos with girls when I was in high/middle school but now I'm too afraid talking on the phone will reveal my boring nature too fast. I know I'm not boring but I don't want to spoil my chances or not know what to say on the phone to build attraction. The last thing I want is to sit around quiet listening to a girl breathe while thinking of all the dirty things I want to do to her but don't have the balls to say.
I used to be a natural too until I went through depression and got unsure about everything. I know I still have it in me. I'm always the quiet guy now and always shy to talk to anyone in a group but that's something I'm getting better at. I just don't know how to have a voice most the time. I want to be able to open girls, conversate, and leave with a number to continue future conversations. I'm just bad at every one of those things. I've been told often that I seem like a 4 girl kinda guy I just wish I could be more about it. Please guys help me get some buns.
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